Reply #1 Mrclark203's post
I hung out with WGs for years and realized a few cold facts:
--- The girls are DESPERATE for money. if they weren't then they wouldn't be in this line of work.
--- They really don't trust men. many of their customers are married or have gfs, and some of their customers abused them.
--- They are constantly surrounded by shady people. most of their friends are also WGs who cheated or stole from them.
--- Many are simply messed up in the head from being a WG and all of the above. Hate to say it like this, but they don't think "normal" like the people you meet outside of WGs.
I tried to be friends with some of the WGs I've known for several months, but sooner or later, like what happened to Shyrocket, they would ask me for money and if I didn't give them then they would just disappear.
If I ever feel like I'm developing feelings for a WG, I remind myself that this is their job -- the only thing separating them from homelessness or their family's struggles. We see WGs for fun, but they NEED this.
But I think (or hope) I've become friends with some WGs. I told them straight up that I'm not rich and can't give them money. Some still continued to keep in touch (or they're playing the very very very long game) and we meet outside of her work and do free/cheap non-sexual cheap things together like going to the temple or just hanging out at a cheap bar. If you bring sex into your "friendship" then they'll put on their work mode because for them sex is work.
In short, best to avoid developing feelings for WGs. It'll bring much more pain than any joy. | |
