shyrocket
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5-6-2024 07:29 |
Reply #2 mature1145's post
I’m a “one WG guy.” I don’t jump different girl week-to-week. If I find someone I like, I see them repeatedly.
I’ve had several regular WGs over the years. (One day I’ll post more about them perhaps.) Some of them might say I’m a sugar daddy. Inevitably feelings develop. If you know humans then you know genuine emotion and authenticity.
One WG and I had a long term fling from Nov 2020 to mid-2023. We saw each other several times a month. We had a lot of rich history between each other. Pretty much anything was on offer and she also ran errands for me if I was ever in a bind.
When she left in mid-2023, it was after 15+ years in Hong Kong. Her departure was sudden due to a family illness. Too sudden for a farewell party with friends. Her whole life and flat reduced to two suitcases in a matter of 2 weeks. She was pretty cut up about leaving, very emotional, lots of tears.
Her emotional departure was indicative of how she felt about me. It was more than just business. Or was it?
There were a few incidents that reminded me that money underpinned our situation.
For example, once we had a very spontaneous meeting in a very public place. We both forgot condoms. I knew this meant no FS in that moment. But I’ll never forget how her tone changed when she said, “If no condom then only BJ today.” Seems insignificant but at the time it hit me: this “fling” is still very transactional for her.
We always had a fantasy that we’d meet somewhere in Asia to continue our fling every once in a while. After she left we kept in touch for months until she asked for money. I didn’t send any. She disappeared. | |
| midnightduo5 |
6-6-2024 20:40 |
Acceptance +1 |
Hits hard |
| slickric423 |
7-6-2024 02:49 |
Acceptance +5 |
great advice for OP , dont send money and see what happens |
| robbb |
12-6-2024 18:55 |
Acceptance +4 |
"After she left we kept in touch for months until she asked for money. I didn’t send any. She disappeared." -- we've ... |
| AquilaGladius |
12-6-2024 21:44 |
Acceptance +3 |
Gone Girl |
| Baytenswitch |
16-6-2024 05:32 |
Acceptance +5 |
Been there in another lifetime, unfortunately… |
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