Friendship with a WG ?
Sorry, I've been lurking so long on these forums and I'm posting twice here. Just looking for thoughts from you guys. I punted a lot in Chengdu before I somehow wound up with a 24 year old hot girlfriend (I'm married but now I have a horny Chinese girl who tires me out everytime I see her)
Anyway, about two years ago, I visited a girl I found via various wechat groups I'm in. She's also young, about 20 when I first met her. In my book she's a 10 - beautiful face, amazing body, she's a Sichuan country girl - "simple" as Chinese people like to say.
First time I met her, she was super excited as I was the first foreign guy she had been with - which is true of almost every Chengdu girl I see.
Anyway, our first session was great although she struggled with my little guy. I was very gentle with her, and friendly. First visit she wouldn't allow DATY - said she'd never done it before and was nervous about it.
We continued to see each other maybe once or twice a month - I bought her some (cheap) trashy clothes in Taiwan and did a photo shoot.
By our third session I convinced her and she loved it. Our rapport became pretty good, I'm an older dude - 50 - but she seems to genuinely like me. I have her private wechat, which I message her on. Like most WGs in China, the work Wechat is NOT her, it's an agent that pretends to be her. She normally gets set up in a hotel room and you go visit her. What I do is I look for when she first starts working, and I see her at that time between appointments - I pay about half her rate - she used to charge 700 but is now up to 1000. Rightly so because she's stunning.
Anyway, as time has passed we've become very friendly - I wouldn't say close and I certainly don't have feelings for her other than friendship. About a year ago, she moved from incall to outcall only but after having her come to a hotel a few times, she finally said "I feel bad making you get a hotel, just come to my apartment." and so I started going to her place. I should note that she shared the place with an even hotter girl who I had seen first, but that girl is a nutcase and has since moved home to Dongbei with her latest boyfriend (who I don't think knows just how many cocks she's sucked poor bastard)
The girl's personal life is a bit of a trainwreck: she gambles at Majong a lot, although isn't a drinker, she seems to have shitty friends, and is horrible with money - I asked her why she doesn't have more clients like me - she's so hot - and her response was that maintaining regular customers is "hard work" and you have to be fake with them which she doesn't like doing. She can be a bit cold sometimes, but for whatever reason she really seems to enjoy our time together. She is fully down for DFK, which she is really into, but she seems to indicate she does not do this with her other clients. Like a lot of WGs, she seems a bit like a broken doll. Something is off with her, and while I feel she could be a super-star professional girl, she seems to prefer to stay up all night playing video games or Majong to working on making enough money to get out of the life.
But anyway, I digress. Six months ago she sent me a very polite message asking me for money. Any other girl, I would have refused but in her case I agreed. I transferred like 600 rmb to her on wechat. This has sort of become a regular thing. She goes home for a few months, she asks for money, I give her money. She is back in town, we meet and it's on my tab. I don't pay her full rate, and she's very accommodating with me. I feel like she's a friend, who I loan money to and fuck. It's a weird setup. She's also always super shy about asking me. Last time I saw her, she said, "I'm embarrassed to ask you to pay me this time, because I have not worked a lot this month" When I told her that I actually was a bit light - business expenses - she immediately dropped it. The next week I got paid and sent her some cash. She's NEVER refused me for service, or anything and she's more meticulous than I am about how much money she owes me. (Right now she's into me for like 1500 rmb)
What I'm curious about is have any other folks every had this sort of relationship with a WG? I genuinely like her as a person, love to fuck her, and kinda want to help her..? But not in a romantic way at all. Curious for your thoughts. | |
