Reply #1 Throwaway9197's post
I think everyone's incentives and motivations are going to be different. In addition, the motivations for hobbying are also going to change over time ... so for what it is worth, suggest calibrate accordingly to your phase in life, budget as well as overall lifestyle choices.
1. What made you take the leap to try out this hobby for the first time?
2. Any first time advices for a potential newcomer? I have been reading about LSC Elise and LKS Ha Yun and those reviews do get me excited lol.
- Probably out of curiosity at the start. I seem to recall one of those little cards with a picture of a pretty woman on it and a phone number drawing me in ... yeah, they used to do that in the days before the internet. After that, hobbying came and went over the years. Some years more, some years dry.
- Over time, the quest for variety came about ... especially when travelling. My soft spot is to "dine local" and try out the local talent. Sometimes flying solo in a foreign place is a tough experience so would be great if you could find a trusted wingman (or wingwoman!) Call it hybrid vigor or heterosis. Call it outbreeding. I think that is one reason we have porn video for categories like white dick in black chicks, asian man white woman, black on brown, etc!
- Stress relief also comes into play. A session with a WL to me is no-muss no-fuss I know what I will get at the end of 30/60/90 minutes. No need to "set the scene" or "wine and dine" or "romance". Sure, I could resort to Hans Solo but it is always better when someone else prettier is doing the work.
- Last though. Sure, the reviews are mostly all pink champagne and rosy peaches. But once you dive in, be prepared for some dark moments and make sure you can handle it. You will find postings about STDs (some real, some scares), fear-of-guilt, run in with law enforcement, etc. So make sure you are prepared to deal with it when the time comes. | |
