Help! Seeking veteran opinions. Shady practice?
Hello everyone, I am here to share a doubt that I never solved (long time passed, but still shady and strange at the time). I am seeking the help of you veterans to get rid of this rat inside my skull.
About 5 years ago I went to a massage parlor in Bangkok, of which of course I don't remember the name, maybe you will be also able to recognize: it was I believe in Sukhumvit alley 22, armchairs at the base floor, counter at the opposite side of the entrance near the stairs, first floor with futons separated by three-quarter walls. The idea is that it seemed a legit massage parlor, no fancy rooms with jacuzzi or girls in sexy outfits. I remember the peculiarity that they made me change pants for the massage, the massage was very long and generally the vibe was not "straight to sex".
It was a place recommended by a trusted friend, who also advise me to approach the girl "slowly", confirming the vibe of the place.
Indeed, after the long massage, the girls started to play around and touching the private parts: giving that I wanted sex, I asked her if it could be possible; at first she asked me to take her with me (saying it was not possible to have sex there, confirming the non presence of the rooms) but then we agreed to do it in a sort of a ravine or a substair (please don't ask, it what i remember  ).
THE DAMN EPISODE: first of all, and very important, she put the condom on me. Then we proceed to have sex, nor very satisfactory or long, we change some positions but the general vibe that I perceived was for her to end quickly. I did not came and I remember checking the condom a few times.
But then the incident, where all becomes shady and blurry in my head, still at that time: I see her on top of me, penis outside (not during the sex act, like when you change position), and she says "stop", like "the time is over". I look back at my penis and the condom is gone. I look at her questioningly and she shows it in her hand with all the calm of this world, like not worried for example when it breaks or something else, as if she removed it because the sex was over. I look at her more questioningly like saying "how the fuck is the condom in your hand?" and she replied something like "I am not like that" meaning she removed it because the sex was over and not for some shady move.
The problem is that I did not feel her removing the condom and surely I don't remember it and still cannot wrap my head around it. I checked the condom few times (cause I have difficulties to come with it and of course safety is a priority), so I am pretty sure I had it on in the act.
What do you think about this story? How the heck I did not feel anything? Do you see something shady? Do girls remove condom with some sort of magic trick and act innocent? I see that some girls practice unprotected sex, but without consent??? Or requesting me to pay more? I felt like I must not remember because giving the fact that she did not ask anything she would not gained anything from this act besides, ironically, getting some STD from me.
Thank you for your time if you read my post and I am really looking for some veteran perspective! | |
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