Original Post
tom-s

9-2-2023 15:54
Temper my expectations

For me, it's more about the welcome, energy, expected service, and acting.  

* Welcome - A hug and smile lets me know I'm at the right place.  Of course, LFK/DFK would be great, but I just want assurance she is ready to provide service.  Grabbing my hand on the way to the table shower is a great touch.  Too timid or quiet and it feels like she just wants it over with.

* Energy - Whether sticking to a script (e.g., 10 min table shower, 15 min massage, 30 min service) or initiating services (whoa, TUMA!), her attitude is key.  Trying to communicate while doing table shower or suggesting positions or services is welcome, as I'm more passive, especially for a first encounter with her (more comfortable leading on the next visit).  Movement and side activities (e.g., playing with my balls or tits while FS or kissing the ears during massage) create an atmosphere where I don't know what is going to happen next.  Lack of energy such as "laying there" during mish or looking away during CG is disappointing.

* Expected service - I also try to do some research to understand what services are available.  So although I love B2B slides in table shower, if I don't think I'm going to get it, I'm okay if it is just a quick cleaning.  Same with DFK -- if I haven't read she does it, I won't be disappointed it isn't offered.  But if a wild table shower is what I've been hearing and I don't get it, it kills my mood.  Or CIM is reported but she says she doesn't do that, that kills my mood.  Although I love BBBJ, if I read that it's typically CBJ, then that is fine.

* Acting - I'm acting being with her, worshiping her and with the tip, I would like her to act like she is into me.  Now, that doesn't mean GFE/PSE but encouragement (even the "you so strong" or fake "ah ah ah" builds the mood) and eye contact is great.  Afterwards, she can count the money and walk out.  

With these four, I'm generally very happy at the end.  Every shop and girl is different and since I monger around my travels, don't get to build up a "regular" or "rotation" so have to explore and temper expectations.

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