Jeff, is this one of the SA girls? Some are compensated dating and some are sugar babies only? The thing is.... and I have never used them, so I am not sure if what I am going to say might not represent the issue here.. I am not familiar with those that much, but SA is compensated dated no? So, you are compensating her to spend time with you, sex or not. And I suspect that some of those women on SA are looking for long term relationships. And that could be what this particular one is interested in, no?
And as I remember you also splurge a bit more than the rest of us, which could also have something to do with it. They know you pay more and thus are willing to see you and be happier around you, some might be real, some may just be doing it for the more money you are givign them. Hate to say that so directly, but... I have been reading stuff about Therman's bar in Thailand, that is not full of Japanese, and the girls would rather go with them than white guys because the Japanese are willing to pay more. It all comes down to money with some of them. In your case it could be 50/50? I don't know.
No matter what, none of that really matters, you are both getting what you want, and you are both having fun! So, I say, why not go for it. But, just I wonder if some of them want to make it a bit more permanent?
I agree that it all depends on how good you get along together. There are a few that I would love to see again, but some of them have exited the market. They don't do WG work anymore. The last time I was in Thailand I asked one of them that was really beautiful and she rejected me as she did not do the work anymore. And I suspected at the time I saw her in Phuket that she would exit doing the work after she went back to Bangkok, and indeed she did. Anyway.... I wouldn't think too much about it Jeff. Do as you like and enjoy yourself with them, just be careful not to get too attached to them, unless you are indeed ready to sort of hang up your punting hat for awhile to pursue one of them. haha. There are a couple I have in mind that I would love to get back together with again if I had the chance. But... | |