Subject: repeat sessions with the same girl - ?
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repeat sessions with the same girl - ?

I am curious about two aspects on repeat visits with the same girl.  Do the sessions tend to get better and better or worse and worse?
Another question, what is the MOST number of repeat visits you've had with the same girl?

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batman108   8-8-2018 12:12  Acceptance  +2   Awesome and thanks
stinkyfeet   6-8-2018 19:48  Acceptance  +5   Really depends on the girl and chemistry
cruman999   6-8-2018 16:22  Acceptance  +4   There are two I have seen between 12-15 times for over nighters
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Reply #1 jeffzeke's post

They get better until they start getting comfortable around you enough that they get complacent. That's when it's time to move on. Lol

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cityguy   9-8-2018 21:37  Acceptance  +4   Spot on - saw one girl 15+ times then she treated me like shit
blast77   7-8-2018 21:43  Acceptance  +8   So true it's not funny lol
jeffzeke   7-8-2018 05:38  Acceptance  +10   interesting
obe   6-8-2018 18:43  Acceptance  +10   Exactly
cruman999   6-8-2018 16:18  Acceptance  +5   Exactly this, happens to me every time
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Reply #1 jeffzeke's post

Usually the sessions get better after the first time. However, based on my experience, the performance tend to deteriorate on the 4th visit for all the WGs I've seen... So even though I set a rule to myself to stop seeing a WG for the 4th time, I tend to think with my LB and go for it anyway always ends in disappointment.. it's almost like a curse for me

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jeffzeke   7-8-2018 05:29  Acceptance  +10   very interesting, so 4 is the magic number for you, thanks for sharing.
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Hmmm, let's see.

The Pro/local girl I had in Chiang Mai I had her over for 3 nights.  Things did get better, but also more risky.  But she was definitely getting more comfortable around me.

Another one I had here, a Vietnamese girl asked me to come back and was happy to see me the second time and even let me have two shots without telling her boss about the second one. Very passionate also, invited me to Vietnam to see her.

The most I have had with a real WG is 2, it's happened several times, someones on purpose and sometimes by accident, such as the same WG showing up at my hotel from years before, most of the time both of us forgot until we try to exchange contact information and then have that Ohhhhh moment.

Generally speaking I do not like to repeat, as a man we go for GIRLS, not a Girl.  If you have read my report on a local girl in Chiang Mai you will understand why. She took a liking to me.  And I think WG or not WG it could happen and in both directions.  The point of our hobby is to get variety.  But I can truly understand why we like to go with the same girl, but emotions have to be kept out of it, because it is very easy for us to fall into a trap, sometimes it's their trap!

Generally I agree with above though, if the chemistry is there, why not go for it. And if both of you are just looking for fun, then sure, 10 times even if is ok.  The only thing I have heard though is that the emotions build and also condoms start coming off which is a huge risk.  I want no part of that no matter how hot it sounds.

Any reason for asking this?

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jeffzeke   7-8-2018 05:31  Acceptance  +10   thanks for sharing, I will answer your question below.
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cruman999  6-8-2018 16:22  Acceptance  +4  There are two I have seen between 12-15 times for over nighters  

I remember one of them. I was just about to dust my suit off and prepare a speech and then she made the fatal mistake of asking you to reduce the amount you smoke. You kicked her arse out the door.

Worked well for me as I banged her a few weeks later.

Obe

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cruman999   8-8-2018 04:44  Acceptance  +4   Good old Yan Yan, she got too comfortable to quick just like they all do but it did take longer than most of them
austin821   7-8-2018 10:02  Acceptance  +6   hahahahaha
jeffzeke   7-8-2018 05:31  Acceptance  +10   funny!
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Any reason for asking this?

Well, when there is great chemistry after the first meeting, I generally try to lock in a second session immediately, if available.  Many of the Vancouver SB's I've seen multiple times, and it does get better, interesting enough.  Sometimes the second/third/fourth times are all quite good.  Now with the sugarbabies on SA, it's a little different because there is usually some dinner/drinks/concerts/clubbing/hiking/sight-seeing, other activities are involved.  With the right girl, it's fun to spend some time with them outside of the bedroom.  Funny thing is that these activities usually lead to even better sex!

I guess the most I've ever seen a girl is about 10 times spread throughout several years.  

I've seen one girl five times in five different cities, LOL!

I'm about to see a second girl for the fifth time in three different cities.  All of these involve over-night stays of one to two nights.

Can be fun!

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twfun   7-8-2018 12:26  Acceptance  +2   I see. See my comments below, I think whatever works for you, have fun!
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It really depends on how well you got along with the girl.  I have frequent quite a few girls whom I have shared pretty good chemistry with.  Then again I have also frequent other girls who provide excellent service.  For me the girls who I have good chemistry with are those I tend to frequent most often.

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jeffzeke   7-8-2018 20:44  Acceptance  +10   very true, thanks for sharing.
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Reply #6 jeffzeke's post

Bottom line is this. Are you still having fun with whichever girl you’re playing with? If you are.... then no need to stop the ride right? Heck.... if after 7-8 Year’s and y’all are still having fun after hundreds of encounters... more power to ya. Heck... you might even want to make an honest woman out of that one. Lol

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jeffzeke   7-8-2018 20:45  Acceptance  +10   haha! could be the "one", LOL!
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Jeff, is this one of the SA girls? Some are compensated dating and some are sugar babies only?   The thing is....  and I have never used them, so I am not sure if what I am going to say might not represent the issue here.. I am not familiar with those that much,  but SA is compensated dated no?  So, you are compensating her to spend time with you, sex or not.  And I suspect that some of those women on SA are looking for long term relationships.  And that could be what this particular one is interested in, no?

And as I remember you also splurge a bit more than the rest of us, which could also have something to do with it.  They know you pay more and thus are willing to see you and be happier around you, some might be real, some may just be doing it for the more money you are givign them.  Hate to say that so directly, but...  I have been reading stuff about Therman's bar in Thailand, that is not full of Japanese, and the girls would rather go with them than white guys because the Japanese are willing to pay more.  It all comes down to money with some of them. In your case it could be 50/50?  I don't know.  

No matter what, none of that really matters, you are both getting what you want, and you are both having fun!  So, I say, why not go for it.  But, just I wonder if some of them want to make it a bit more permanent?  

I agree that it all depends on how good you get along together.  There are a few that I would love to see again, but some of them have exited the market.  They don't do WG work anymore. The last time I was in Thailand I asked one of them that was really beautiful and she rejected me as she did not do the work anymore.  And I suspected at the time I saw her in Phuket that she would exit doing the work after she went back to Bangkok, and indeed she did.  Anyway....   I wouldn't think too much about it Jeff.  Do as you like and enjoy yourself with them, just be careful not to get too attached to them, unless you are indeed ready to sort of hang up your punting hat for awhile to pursue one of them.  haha.  There are a couple I have in mind that I would love to get back together with again if I had the chance.  But...

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jeffzeke   7-8-2018 20:49  Acceptance  +10   yes, interesting perspective. The $ component is always there and I tend towards the generous end. I emphasize NSA, no ...
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I'm a big fan of repeats. Once I found one with good services, I'd go whenever I can so I have them in rotation until they drop out of business or the following happens. When you repeatedly visit a girl it usually go two ways:

Both of you get comfortable, she started to get sloppy, or ask for tip, or treat you bad. That's the hint that you should leave her and move on.

Or

Both of you get comfortable, she lowers her guard, and started giving you more and more services. Some insane ones aren't offered until you repeat a few times.

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jeffzeke   7-8-2018 20:49  Acceptance  +10   very true, I have experienced both.
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