Reply #13 DArtagnan's post
Gents, your words of wisdom are well received, leaving me with both an action plan but unfortunately with a reelection of some missed opportunities!
It's ok, I have converted a few of the chances too, including a cute Shenzhen lounge girl who is now an on-demand sex-friend (her term) but not cheap. In between when we are not having sex she will just keep me company if I'm in Shenzhen, go to restaurants, join me for massage at other sauna, etc. When it comes to having sex, we both get screwed, her literally, me financially (she wants 3000 each time). I know, it's a lot but according to her I am 'helping' her. I know it's expensive but she is quite a tiger in the bed.
The infatuation certainly does go away after the sex.
If I am honest, a lot of the chase is about whether the good looking girl likes me for more than the money only. The points made in the replies are all very relevant. Then I have to ask myself, do I actually care? The girl that I really wanted to get into bed becomes boring after a few times sleeping with her.
Then another one comes along and it's back to square one... | |