Reply #12 bonkers89's post
Lots of great advice already - my 2c
a) stop thinking she's so innocent - she's a girl, girls mature early, and boy do they talk to each other!
b) all girls love appreciation and attention
c) don't wait, if you can contact her, contact her - and if you can't then yes go ahead and book a session
d) CLs suggested approach is bang on the money: tell her you're feeling very attracted to her, and want to know if she'd meet you for a Date
e) NO NEED to be explicit about sex, offer money, or talk about going back to your room ... she will escalate if she's at all attracted to you!! Maybe a "I want to know what would it take to have you love me?" might move things forward - then you can read her reply if she's interested in P4P
My guess is she's probably being hit on constantly by a procession of guys ... which would mean that unless you're unusually good-looking, entertaining, or rich, you need to find a better way to get her attention than the "God you're sexy!" approach ... and being a very attentive gentleman seems to do that quite effectively.
Not quite the same as 'playing it cool' can send the wrong signal - more like 'play it hot, but non-threatening'.
There isn't a girl alive who dislikes being attractive, just as long as you stay respectful and avoid trying to control her. | |
