Reply #8 TheButler's post
Couldn't agree more. I was a "super regular" for a while with a WG. We had Real chemistry, she travelled with me a few times, she never asked me for money but I was always quite generous so she wouldn't have to. After a bit we BBFS'd every time. It was stupid beyond belief. I convinced myself that I was special and therefore it was safe. Stupid.
Ultimately we had a major pregnancy scare. I have three kids that I love dearly. When the pregnancy scare resolved itself (turned out she was simply late with her period), I woke up and vowed never again. I saw my whole life pass before my eyes,and my kids and SO leaving me,etc. it was a damn nightmare.
Anyway, best sex of my life no questions. hands down. But not worth it. Really. These girls are in this for a reason and no matter how special they make you feel, never forget that you may very well be a means to an end.
All the above being said, the WG I was involved never took advantage of me. Ever. She could have and I left myself vulnerable to that but she was 100 times more honorable than me. I still think about her weekly at least. she was and is a truly good person. An honest person. Rare in this world and rarer still in the WG scene.
She's still working and I hope she's treated well by all who see her but I can't see her again, I actually feel too strongly for her. | |