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TheButler

2-4-2013 08:02
Reply #1 lazytjai's post

I've dated a few here or there, but since I'm from out of town, it was easier to keep the appropriate boundaries.  Emotionally, you should not expect her to be monogamous even if that is your agreement.  For me, I found the emotional part easier to manage than the safety part.  It's real easy to convince yourself that BB is safe, but of course if you're also expecting that she will play around when you're not there; well that's the ultimate in mental 'compartmentalization.'

And I've seen plenty of experienced girls who could fake being a newbie.

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matsumoto 3-4-2013 20:17 Acceptance +4 Good pt, the few WGS w/ whom I spent time outside eventually wanted BBFS


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