Reply #14 Bluemeanie's post
A tough one. I obviously CANNOT come on here and suggest everyone fall prey to every sob-story one hears from a bargirl. Hell, even if you believe the story is true noone made YOU responsible forher wellfare, right? You paid your amount for the punt, right? You don't owe her anything more.
All true. And in general a good, simple rule to protect yourself.
But, just like helping a mate, you sometimes have gals you've got to know, spent a ton of time with, and the natural male "white-knight" instinct kicks in. You do care about her wellfare. And helpingg, when it feels right, is rewarding all by itself. (and they know this too... Men are simple beings).
The gals I have helped all rewarded me many, many times over. And I felt good about helping. I still do. Kinda feels like I've given back to the "community". Earned some Karma.
But that said.., there ARE a million sob-stories out there. There are a billion scams. So.., it goes toinstinct and gut.
So.., enjoy the feeling of doing a good deed. What comes around goes around. | |
