This is the problem
Just because your regular asks for money doesnt mean she is trying to scam you... but it is so hard to trust, right?
We know they are usually extremely poor, and with almost no backup to fall-back on. In fact, THEY are usually the backup for their families.., that's why they are here and doing this work. So their need could indeed be very genuine, and often the amount they need is rather small. (I bet she asked for a few thousand HK for the visa run?).
Anyway, I have helped a few over the years. And I never regretted it. Their requests were genuine and never excessive, and their appreciation magnificent! (wink, wink). That said, I have also said "no" when it didnt feel right.
You just need to trust your gut | |
