Originally posted by wander at 26-8-2012 15:15
She "gets me" more than my wife ever has after countless years together...
That's what it always feels like when comparing the unobtainable one with the one you've got. The more two people want to be together but are prohibited from doing so, the more they get reckless in passion and choose to overlook each others' shortcomings. It feels like they are really loving you AND all your faults (as opposed to "in spite" of your faults). It's pretty heady stuff, whereas the one you're with is a little worn down by familiarity and is loving you IN Spite of your faults.
And you know how often all that flips around once people get what the desperately want . . .
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