Reply #23 wander's post
Bro... Stop hurting yourself.
There are two ways fo seing it, the half full or half empty glass.
Half full is all the benefits you get from this girl and the fact that you are so compatible. Clearly this is a great thing even though we all know (you included) that this only has a time, then things start to deteriorate. Still if its so strong, then you should probably think about quiting everything for her and just live your life, but she has to be ready to do the same (have seen a situation where the guy left his wife and the girl stayed with her husband... Thats tough!).
Half empty is about all that you would loose (dont know your personnal life) in terms of children, life, friends (they will judge you) wealth (she will walk away with your money... Talking about the SO).
I considered doing this one time but am a coward and could only see the half empty part. Maybe you have more balls then me (and I was in a situation where I had no one,just wanted to leave so didnt really have the half full part...).
You gotta do your Swot. Guess you've done it already but this is a situation that impacts you, your SO and many other people so it cant be taken lightly (its not a punt when everything goes back to normal after the deed!).
Whatever decision you take, my advice is (I do it for my business decisons orhard emails), once your mind is set put the decision on hold for one day, look at it with a cool head the next day (dont think about it in between, this is kind of tough) and if it still makes sense, do the jump. | |
