You can fool yourself. You can fool her.
But as time passes, fooling become very realistic. A lie becomes the Truth. Fantasy becomes the norm.
Guys try to justify the relationship as WG-Client. But for 1, 2 or 3 years? Nah, it becomes BF-GF (with complications), yeah, you can put "It's Complicated" on your FaceB00k page. And as time passes, would the guy break it off to hunt new WGs? Nope, the fantasy has become the "norm" and now it feels "comfortable" or right.
I don't blame you. Would a guy go through drama with a 2 month WG relationship? Nope. Would a guy go through intense drama with a WG he's been seeing for 2 years? YUP! He'd even go further since hey, she's his GF!!
Having 3 is nuts. But since all 3 are from different circles, you've got it made. I'm not doubting your skills to keep them apart, but your relationship for years with each of them does not surprise me. It's normal and I gotta say, not many guys can "understand" the relationship between a guy and a WG-gf. It's something deeper and fulfilling and nothing others can say will define it. It's only between you and her.
Should you "get" them back? Absolutely!
But if all 3 know about eachother, I guess it's check mate. Would you at least want ONE of them back? | |
