Biggest Bang for your Buck!
This topic is a continuation of a discussion we were having on a thread in the Mainland section
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... xtra=&page=5###
But since this is a topic I believe applicable to mongering in general, I’m starting this thread here.
Most discussions I’ve seen on this as well as other mongering boards usually centers upon the quality, the highlights/drawbacks of gals, complaints/praise of them – but I hardly see discussions on things FROM the WG’s POV….and how we all can take advantage of THEIR feelings and druthers!
I’ve had quite a few discussions with WG’s – in general and in earnest – about their feelings towards us mongers, their pet peeves, their joys, their favorites things etc and not just about the money part – which I would like to ignore for purposes of this thread as I think it probably already gets discussed too much/ad-finitum in other threads.
OK – first, a few pet peeves I hear time and again, and my opening for discussion as to how we AS MONGERS could minimize its impact on the session we’re paying for.
** Dirty, sloven mongers – Most gals just hate it when a guy’s filthy, got BO, got dirty long finger nails/unshaven and scratching them all over etc. This one’s an easy one! Guys, just coz you’re paying for it, don’t mean that you could be a slob AND expect your partner to be still all eager to do you. Apply the same standards you would with civvies and for sure you’d get best results.
** Obese/fat guys – Well, not much one can do about this – or is there? I mean gals always complain about being literally squashed by overweight guys to the point of not being to breathe when fat guys, constricted by the size of their bellies, tend to push excessively trying to get their LB’s in their LS’s! For you guys overweight, try to have them on top, on the side and of course Doggy style more. And when doggy-ing – please make sure that you do have firm footing as falling flat on them can be quite disastrous. And if you really need to bend their legs over your shoulder to gain maximum penetration, limit such moves to when you’re on the side with her and NOT when you’re on mish.
** Rough play – OK, there ARE technicians who do specialize on such – and even those who only discover such to be a niche for them when it happens; but I’d suggest that for most of us, it’s really NOT a good idea for you to “Push the boundaries”. I’ve heard gals telling me how terrified they were when guys start to get rough with them – never knowing where it’s going to go to. If you really enjoy rough play – then you should clearly and politely discuss such requirement for their full consent AND agreement prior to embarking on such.
** Drunks – the bane of WG’s! Drunk guys have a tendency to last way too long, make a mess, be belligerent/uncooperative and usually then end up NOT really enjoying the session … or even forgetting about it totally. Do yourself a favor – DON’T get a WG when you’re drunk, for not only are you NOT maximizing your punting dollar, you’re actually also putting yourself in danger for being robbed, rolled or even just conned.
** Drugs – ditto as per drunks. But besides illegal substances, which we are not allowed to discuss on this board, there is also the question of erectile dysfunction medication. I’d say that most WG’s would prefer that we mongers do not use/use less such ED meds as it usually means a longer – and harder – session. I don’t know what we who needs such meds could do to turn this matter to our advantage when dealing with a WG – but at least perhaps best NOT to even mention that one has taken such meds
** Kinkiness – OK, we’re all types us human – some of us more kinky than others and some thinking an act is normal whilst others think its depravity; all kinds. But here again, a clear discussion and delineation as to your desires versus her limits is definitely in order prior to ANY activities.
** Anger – now this is one thing that most gals are terrified of. Most have had clients who somewhere along the act suddenly display anger…for reasons they really cannot fathom. To them, they’re already providing the most intimate of action that a human is capable of performing and all of a sudden a client would get mad. You as a monger, if you have any issues – again discuss it with your gal what your issue is and do not just explode on them. They’re already psychologically disadvantaged as being the provider in the act/they’re also at a definite physical disadvantage in regards to size – so consider the effect it has on your gal if you blow your top. Anger of any kind/for any reason will usually just result in a totally dissatisfying experience for both parties. Also, best you do NOT embark on getting a WG if you’re somehow or other already generally pissed off.
I’m NOT on any kind of Save-a-Ho campaign/trying to come up with a manifesto for WG’s or anything like this – rather, I just want to discover what makes for the biggest Bang for the Buck – for after all, the gals are always trying to get the Best Buck for their Bang!
Ok guys – Fire Away!
SEAN – yeah, I do love mongering!! | |
