there is some validity to all this discussion about rings being a chick magnet.
Some of it though is a bit of confusion, at least on my part, to the roles of cause-and-effect.
Sure, I get more attention from girls now with the wedding ring then when I didn't . however, and I have been married 16 years, I am a different person now, more confident, more forthright, more assertive, and yes, much more experienced with women both sexually and emotionally (both civvie and P4P ) . So yes, the girls are attracted to you because you have the wedding ring but is it not possible they are also attracted to you because of the other attributes you may have gained since you have been married.
I have met countless civvie birds in the course of business and daily interactions who have expressed interest in me and I know it would be relatively easy to "pull them" or at least for me to try to, and this was simply because I have the experience of being married and dealing with women, not simply because I am wearing a ring. If I was dealing with the same birds and was not married, I think they would pick up on the fact that I didn't have the confidence and sophistication, and then would have no chance of getting them and they would further or not so willingly indicate their interest or receptiveness to an approach. this is essentially how I lived through my 20s until I got married
it's like when I look at my job now and think I should've had the same job 10 years ago rather than going through all the hell I had to go to to find an appropriate place for my foil, but had I not gone through the 10 years of hell I would've never had the experience and qualifications and maturity to do the job today. it's exactly the same thing with the civvie
birds
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. however, and I have been married 16 years, I am a different person now, more confident, more forthright, more assertive, and yes, much more experienced with women both sexually and emotionally
(both civvie and P4P
) . So yes, the girls are attracted to you because you have the wedding ring but is it not possible they are also attracted to you because of the other attributes you may have gained since you have been married.
