There's a lot of info on here regarding punting phones (at least you don't have to explain away condoms anymore) but this all depends on your personal circumstances. A punting phone is easy to explain as a work mobile or a travel mobile etc. but it you're unlikely to have one for those purposes, it will raise suspicion.
The thing is, you're moving from hiding punting activities to hiding something that is more akin to an affair and the rules change at that point. Possibly the biggest dangers you're going to face are that you're already developing significant feelings for this woman and, as with most feelings, they may only grow and develop.
A worry is that you 'kind of' trust her. There's been a few threads here recently about taking risks etc but you need to remember that you're not only 'kind of' trusting her with your health but your SO's - would you be willing to risk her if the girl wasn't telling you the whole truth?
I"m old fashioned with WG's an see it as a (fun) business transaction where I'm paying them to walk away and be discrete. By paying them to be a lover, in an emotional sense, I'd be going against my better judgement (I can enjoy the fantasy but, in the end, it is just a fantasy).
A friend of mine once said, never get into an affair if you're not willing to lose what you have at home (or words to that effect). | |
