Quite honestly, the less you have to lie, the better.
- Your SO is less likely going to go through your phone if you don't give her reason to.
- Your SO is less likely going to go through your phone if you meet so many people even YOU can't remember who's who.
- Your SO is less likely going to go through your phone if there's nothing ON your phone.
So. Think like a spy.
- Never keep a set schedule.
- Find a job that gives you an excuse to go places (sales / sourcing / diplomat / etc)
- Siphon funds away regularly to put in a secure place (ie, separate account)
- Go MEET people. (Rotary Club, Lion's Club, Punter's Anonymous, etc)
- There's the truth, and then there's the WHOLE truth. The less you lie, the better.
- Give yourself an out (Gyms / Massage Therapists / Golf & Country Clubs / etc).
Chances are, your SO is not a trained interrogator. Plus she loves you and hence WANTS to believe you. It shouldn't be that hard.
~UD | |
