Hey,
I am just curious. I have never done this before, and I read this forum mostly for entertainment.

However, I was wondering if anyone's ever been caught by their gf/wife?

and when you got caught, what happened? (did they get pissed off? cried? filed for divorce? forgive you?)

and if you got caught more than once, how many times?


Cheers!

A few questions back :

1. Your never done this before ?  Meaning what ?   Reading ?

2. Caught ?  Does it mean doing reading ? Or writing ?

When you say that you read this forum "mostly for entertainment", what do you really mean?  Do you mean that reading the reports give you a hard on and so you "entertain yourself"???

Maybe you should contribute to the forum somehow before doing this kind of investigation work?  Since you are not going to "get caught" anyway, why wonder???

My guess is that he has never punted before and does not sound like he intends to ever punt.  But I may be reading him wrong.

Knock on wood, so far so good.  Never been caught.  Of course I usually only partake when I travel.

Happy Hunting.

Che'lu

Never got caught, knock on wood.  I am very discrete and keep a very low profile on my mongering.

I use Chrome's Incognito Mode to view the these forums and only view and log in from home.   My wife thinks it's just another forum or that I'm looking at hot naked chicks.

If my SO caught me, then it would be over.  Plain and simple.  The name of the game is to keep things hidden.  Once I'm caught, the social consequences are dire and things will never be the same.  It's just best we both move on then.

It helps that I never feel guilty and that I am just committed only to her.  Mongering is a business for me, period.  I like to lay, have some fun, but I find too many WGs have way too much baggage, issues, or other nasty emotional tidbits that would make a relationship with them very difficult.  My SO is the only woman I love now.  I don't ever get emotionally involved long term with another girl.  That's just jumping into fire.

I admire the brothers who can handle two or more steady relationships at the same time, especially if they are open about it.  I just don't know how they find the time and energy to do so without all their SOs getting jealous.  

[ Last edited by  Chasem at 26-3-2012 15:10 ]

Red handed never. But she always suspects me. I confuse her bigtime by talking about girls all

the time that she doesn't take it seriously when I have weak alibi.

Totally agree with Chasem. For me, this forum is an invaluable resource, but to my missus, its in incognito mode, so its not trackable, and its 'pink' nature is hidden.

Even evidence that I visit this forum would be trouble enough, not to mention that I've contributed and plan to add many more reports ...

And like chelu, I only do this when I'm travelling. Pays not to crap where you eat, but who can blame you what kind of stuff you might eat overseas

I went to Thailand on a sex weekend.  Came back and 1/2 a condom wrapper was in my bag.  I don't use condoms with my wife.

She ignored me for 2 days. Couldn't figure it out and put it on my pillow when I went to bed.  Then she got angry...

I immediately said it was blah blah who went with me and he played a joke.  I got my mate to send me an SMS the next day to tease me about the condom and admit he did it.

Wife calmed down and life went on.  PHEW.

like most others, i use chrome's incognito mode and only browse when i can be sure she isn't around.  have never been caught, and if i did, would have to end the relationship and move on.  like others, punting is just recreational for me and i'd never have any intention of leaving my SO.

I agree with Chasem , as long as you dont get emotional with the WG and repeat then you will be able to over come this issue , the other key is to keep this action on traveling only and not a day to day habit

As far as I know with my SO, if I ever get caught even once, it will be game over. For me, doing a WG most times is like playing a game of sport with no emotional attachment, just a quick release. But my SO will never see it that way, to her, it would be a betrayal. Be careful. dont test their limit, LOL.

Lost a few over my activities....g/f's ......but plenty of fish in the sea.

I had a Chinese g/f, we did not live together but she came around 3/4 week and had a key, for 5 years in HK and lost her as I used to bring the WG's home to save on the hotel costs. One day I came home to a pillow with different colour hairs on it...she had scoured the apartment and collected quiet a few Another time she noticed her feminine wash was used and left opened why do WG's use other peoples bathroom stuff. She eventually had enough and walked out and I've never seen her since!

When in Dubai I had a Filipino g/f there and was caught with a WG in my flat, when my g/f came around one Friday morning (Friday is Sunday in the Middle East) unexpected. I got the WG to dress and pretend to sleep on the sofa and I answered the door as if I had been woken just then and came from the bedroom. The WG acted very well and even said before she left "thanks for putting me up on the sofa!!! The g/f did'nt believe me and stayed silence for most of the day...we made up with a shag later and stuck around for 18 months more until I dumped her for another....she knew I shagged others during our relationship!

You lose some and win some but losing a good one is sad!!

hahah this is a not complete questions. but if you are asking about masturbating, i've never been caught before
even if i am caught, i think she wont break up with me

Nope. never been caught. I tell the GFsssss about 80% of what happens anyway....
yes. i go to karaoke with these WGs...but i treat them like i would friends of friends of friends that we go Karaoke with anyway. It's pretty stupid if it's 3 guys karaoke-ing right.....
I go have massages all the time. I'm not there enough to know which place is veggie and which place isn't....so long as you know how to say no... =)~

~UD

Lucky, no, I ever not been caught right now, but I something think my wife know I go to visit WG and she never say any thing.....

yeah, i dont go out find WG or anything like that, and it's not my intention to. I just find it fasinating that people do, (hey nothing wrong with any of this) and I occasionally read here. Which leads me to wonder if people've been caught before.

Do you guys ever find yourselves wracked by guilt though? My one punt, ONE, made me feel almost sick with guilt - but damn if it wasnt one of the highlights of my life. HK girl no less.

Wow...only 2 posts in your two years on this board. You sure must be guilt-wrecked to be posting about it. But yeah...seems like punting is not your cup of tea.

Caught-No, but I am sure she knows anyway.  Women can pick up on the slightest variation in your routine.  I belive mine chooses to ignore it because of the type of life that I provide for her.  Now if she had red handed proof, then we would be done.  If it happens, it happens.  I have believed for a long time that men are not meant to be stuck with one woman forever.  

Guilty- no except for maybe the first two times.  It has gotten to the point where I can emotionally detach myself and form two different lives.  I am a huge James Bond fan and live my life along those lines.  Every once in a while I have to look in the mirror and say my name is Slim and I am a proud man whore.

Repeating with the same girl- Love it.  Again if you can control your emotions this will not be a problem.  I travel tons for work and love having the company of women all over the world.  By having a few regulars I can set things up in advance and just relax upon arrival.  It makes traveling so much fun.  In fact I have gotten to the point that I would rather be traveling than sitting at home.  I love forming relationships and some of the drama that comes with these girls!  I have reached out to different folks on this board for some advice from time to time and it has been great.  I am new to the HK scene and have been provided a ton of information on how things work in HK.  However, if I lived in HK I would be in a heap of shit.  LOL!!  I don't have an addictive type of personality, but I know that women are my one weakness.  I just love women and that is never going to change for me.  I figure I might as well run with it and enjoy life!!

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