Originally posted by slimshanks at 16-4-2012 09:13
Damn bro my sentiments exactly. I hate what the American culture has become with respect to this feminist bullshit that my fathers generation allowed to happen. Way too many of my friends just roll ...
Great post!!! I hate to see the way my old friends in America live their life with their wives. I feel so bad for them. Many times I have taken my asian gfs and then my asian wife with me to visit them in America (I have taken PRC, HK, Thai and Philippine girls to visit my friends in US), all of their wives hated my girls because they treated me nicely and they were afraid my friends would expect them to treat them as nicely too. I remember one time at a dinner we were having drinks and a new round of drinks arrived and the men opened the cans for their wives and poured the drinks into the glass for them without even thinking about it. At the same time my PRC girlfriend opened my can and poured my drink for me. She was proud of herself for doing it, but the other wives just stared at her with black faces and my friends were all stunned and scared of what their wives were going to do.
After that dinner some of my friends were banned from going out with me again if I had a gf with me because they said it was disgusting to see a woman demean herself like that. A couple of the wives want to see us more often because they felt that my gf needed to be trained and they would help her learn the American style.
And you might think that the girls I took with me thought it was good that girls can be the ones in control, but all them thought it was horrible to see my friends wives acting like that and asked me why my friends would be willing to live like that. I just told them all that is normal life in America and that is why I live in Asia.
Now that we are in our mid 40s, a couple of my friends have gotten divorces and come to visit me here. They also had a problem with 'paying for it'. I explained to them Asian culture is different. You are not paying to have sex with a girl, you are paying her to go away after you finish. Kind of like how you paid more than half of your assets to your wife to get a divorce. But here you can just pay as you go and you don't have to give them your house.
After I told one of my friends that, 20 minutes later he had the biggest smile I ever saw on his face in a Macau sauna on his first ever trip outside of America, 4 girls climbing all over him, 1 girl cleaning each of his ears, one girl giving a manicure and another girl giving a thigh massage, and a lineup coming so he could choose which girl to take into the room, where the ugliest girl in the lineup was still twice as hot as his ex-wife. I could see his 20 years of marriage pain being cleansed from his body when we told me he never believed all the things I told him about Asia until now and now he understands why I never came back. |
