I always tell my wife if I have plan to get a girl before I do it. As long as I am not trying to hide something from her she is fine with it.
She already knew that I always had a lot of girls before we got married, mostly civilian but the occasional WG and she was OK with it then. After getting married I cut down the number of girls I get by a lot since I don't want anyone making trouble for us so I have to be more choosy and due to lack of time since my wife is my priority and I enjoy spending time with her. I don't go out to Wan Chai without her anymore because I don't want her friends to see me there by myself and make her feel embarrassed to her friends since she doesn't like her friends to know about it.
I do keep some gfs in HK that I see occasionally, most of them I have introduced to my wife so she feels more comfortable about me seeing them. Sometimes she likes to watch if the other girl will let her.
I would have been perfectly happy to be single all my life and enjoy my life by myself if I never found a girl who could accept me as a horny bastard. I was almost 40 before I got married, but luckily I found one who not only accepts it but enjoys it.
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