Original Post
wander

7-2-2012 17:13
thought I might finally chime in

Some want to equate these gals as "just service providers".   And many are...... I avoid these ones.   

A large percentage (of bargirls, anyway) are just girls who found a way to make a buck where they otherwise couldn't, or wouldn't.   (Many are just lazy...., sweet and awesome and intelligent, perhaps, but still too lazy to find a different way).
  
Bnut they are just girls at the end of the day.  They respond the same as any girl anywhere.  They appreciate (and remember FAR more the we do) the little kindnesses we show.  

But, gifting is all about sincerity:  bring a gift on a first date to a civvie and it means nothing, right?  A bribe, perhaps, nothing more.  But bring a "thoughtful" gift on a second date?????? ("Thoughtful" merely means a gift that was appropriate given the conversation you previously had).   Shit..., she's  YOURS!!  You "listened" to her or "understood" her, or whatever....

But if you don't "feel it" you might as well forget it.  Even a simple rose is wasted if she can see your not genuinely exited to be giving it to her...  Like those "vendor gifts" every business manreceives in Asai!  (Ooooh, I feel so special!!! Haha) It is wasted.  

So......, Bring her a gift only if you really dig her.  You'll enjoy doing so regardless how she feels.   (But, most likely, you'll get the reward you seek).   

I buy gifts for gals.  I enjoy it.  I love that smile.....   Sometimes (rarely)  pricey gifts,  but usually not ---- depends on the gal, how long we've been screwing, etc. Etc.  A few LONG TIME regulars have received very nice jewelry from me....special gifts I wanted to do for their birthday or Valentines or whatever - something to say she's not "just another" WG.  They fuckin' appreciate these gestures....   Just being treated like a lady!  And..., in return..., they'll treat you like the man they WANT to seduce, not a client.     

Just my take on it...

UsernameTimeCreditsReason
Tuffbod 7-2-2012 18:22 Karma +1 Spot on there Wander! Listening is the key word,all girls dig that!
rajuk 2-6-2018 16:35 Acceptance +2 Well said, they are just in it for the money. We pay a lot for a service.
zebrazebra 4-7-2018 18:55 Acceptance +4 wise words




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