Reply #57 DArtagnan's post
They may well be real, but I take the tactic that it's still business.. If they need money, fine. They need money. We all need money. They have a way to earn it. I do my job, they do theirs. If she is honest and upfront about it: "hey, I have a sudden problem, and I need some money" then I can understand. But you know when that's bullshit and when it's not. And regardless, there is a set amount I will ever give a WG, and I expect in return hat she does her part. That's the relationship. I pay, she puts out. I pay more, she puts out more. That's the deal. As long as she is honest, I am perfectly willing to be a nice dude and help out. But to tell me their son is sick, and use the cash ona new Pravda bag.... Fuck that. I don't need that bs in my life.
I mean, keep in mind, most girls start this career because they are kinda low on options. Nobody stops being a banker or a doctor or a lawyer to be a WG. Most had shit jobs in shit places with shit futures before this. Many are divorced with deadbeat husbands. All of them need cash. That's why they do this. for them, yeah, I agree. It's why I tip big, and try to be a nice friendly guy. If I can help them out, and get a good fuck while I am at it, then we all win. Kinda. At least I can make it as un-unpleasant foro them as I can.
But my tolerance for them starting a different game, pretending they actually care about me, or that I am something more than a wallet that produces money when they have sex is very low. That brings dishonesty into the arrangement, and that ruins it. Like I said before. The real joy of punting is the clean, realistic honesty of it. If I want agirlfriend, I'm not gonna look for her in Wanchai. And if she wants a real boyfriend, we all know she isn't gonna look for one in Wanchai either. Anything else is at least partially delusional. It may be a delusion some people enjoy, and if so, fine, but... At the end of the day, believing hat delusion creates a lot of issues.
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