Tell you all a real story of my idiotic f*cked up life.... my work buddy who probably will read this will laugh.

So I'm married to a beautiful local HK girl who is normal for nearly 8 years.  She is 6 months pregnant and lovely.  Several years ago, I met this MK type girl on the Tung Chung MTR.  She was so cute and beautiful.  Everyday she would sit opposite me on the train... then one day she pointed at my blackberry and she gave me her number (she didn't know if I spoke English or Chinese or whatever)... was the best day of my life.  One thing led to another and I actually fell in love with this girl and she would give me proper GFE etc.    Then the day came she found out I was married and she left me....

So I then met another girl from my work (sub-ordinate), another MK type girl - one thing led to another and she would give me free handjobs at work at my desk, while pretending to look at my computer screen.  She knew I was married, but it ended because some rumours went around that I sexually manipulated her because of my senior position.  I got fired (with no evidence or ground) and she wanted to come to my home to visit me. Naturally, my wife is at home so I called it quits.

So I became acquainted with 141 and that's when I started my sex addiction.  My wife slowly by slowly gave less and less sex.  To the point of only just once per year!  It didn't bother me because I had regular awesome sex sessions from 141, and I'm told its normal amongst my married friends.

Then in November 2011... I met a girl from my work.  Same floor but different department.  She is not a looker, and frankly quite average - I wouldn't look twice at her on the streets.  But some how she made eye contact with me in passing and things kicked off....   I asked her out for a lunch date and she accepted.  Then on the 2nd date (roughly 3 days after I met her), we went to causeway bay.  She told me her mobile phone was broken.  I had a fear that she was poor and she would be upset - so I panicked and bought her a brand new $6300 samsung nexus!  2nd date!!!  

5th date came along roughly 1.5 weeks from meeting her and she tells me her desktop was broken and hinted how good it would be if she could afford a laptop!  I - the f*cking idiot - took her to Fortress and got her a brand new macbook air!!!  1.5 weeks from meeting her!  


After 10+ dates, so roughly 3-4 week since I met her, she takes me to Whampoa car yard and hints she would like a car.  She has a drivers license but no car!  How good it would be if she had a boyfriend who would buy her a car..... GOD... I'm not getting her this car.  So she tries to be cute and princess like ---- so I reach in for a test HUG, and she backs away.  We are standing .5 foot apart and I reach for a kiss, and she rejects.... actually she won't even let me touch her....  She called me her boyfriend and that she loved me, but she is a 25 year old virgin she said...  She needs time before she can let me touch her....  WTF --- I felt cheated.  Even though I was cheating her... I can't believe I lost $15,000HKD to a girl which won't even let me touch her!

So I send her $2000HKD worth of roses (qty: 99) - yesterday to her at work.  She sends me a Whatsapp...  "I DON'T NEED ROSES, I NEED A CAR! I NEED CASH! My ex-bf would pay my rent, give me money and buy me anything I wanted".  She said it was her birthday (magically yesterday out of the blue - she refused to show me her HKID card), and she demanded as her boyfriend I must buy her a Chanel $30,000HKD handbag and a BMW by the weekend - or no love from her.

So what happened is --- she blocks me on whatsapp, consumes roughly $25,000HKD of my money within 2 months of knowing her and gives me threats.  She said "you can buy my love, but you can't force me to love you"....  I tell her, buying her love is the same as a hooker.  But this girl was actually the most expensive hooker I paid for, but didn't even get to touch her at all!


What did I achieve:

1) I lost out on 25 punts with HG
2) I ended up getting emotional depression and guilt
3) I ended up getting cheated, when I was the one planning to cheat her :-(

I need to see a doctor.  I really do have a mental issue.

[ Last edited by  virginboy at 29-1-2012 00:50 ]

you are a kinky king, so you're not a troll, but the story does seem odd.

i too have gone out of my way for average looking girls. Being on the "same frequency" as the girl, no matter how plain she looks, counts for something.

you are a very generous guy... you must be non-chinese.  i don't buy expensive electronics for anyone,much less a plain girl i've only known for a couple weeks.

you didn't "lose out" on 25 punts.  it's not rational for to people dwell on "what could have been" after making decisions.  you can't be right 100% of the time, you can't always resist your impulses.   life's a string of gambles... some big some small.  Unless you're making only 200,000 HKD per year before taxes, this is small potatoes.

Hey Bro, let it fly....   The past is the past.  Gone forever!

What happened to you was caused, entirely, by your own ego.  You (like many, many bros) have a need to prove yourself as the "big man" and she saw it IMMEDIATELY and used this weakness against you.  

But such a trait is not uncommon - we ALL like to be the BIG MAN with our gals.  So don't beat yourself up too badly.  Be happy you escaped that nothing-but-money-tart! She's clearly not worth another single thought.   

A tip, Bro - STOP trying to win a gal with cash!  If she doesn't want your time while sharing a simple movie-nite or a decent dinner than RUN!  It's not "you" she likes, it's your bank account.  

Good luck with the next one.....

you really do have a problem....
Galaxy Nexus is only HK$4,800.

You should consider yourself lucky that you didn't touch this con artist, or she might be playing you even more, and even more seriously.

To the bro who said that 20k is nothing for sb on 200k or more a year. That all depends on whether your SO looks at your bank records from time to time.

i agree that this story seems odd from a member of KK status.

Actually, his move of purchasing stuff for a girls attention seems alot MORE Chinese then anything.

Kudos dude for sharing the story with us. Hope you don't fall for such girls again. I really really hate them civvie girls who are so materialistic and demands branded stuff. Why can't all girls just be happy that we are giving them attention and love? lol!

next time a girl asks me for an LV branded purse, I am gonna ask for a 141 branded pussy.  Then kindly inform her that demanding gifts is the same as demanding payment.  If shes a hooker, I will treat her like one.

sorry to hear you were scammed.  nothing you can do now but consider it a lesson learned and don't make the same mistake again.  thanks for posting your story so that those who read it wouldn't make the same mistake.

Well... if OP is a mainlander fatcat, then yes, spraying money like it's out of style is VERY chinese.

For the typical ethnic Chinese office worker, lavishing moderately expensive gifts on an AVERAGE looking
chinese girl is highly unusual behavior.

Just saying.

and thus the true benefit of punting 141 is once again revealed... we all need regular sex, we all desire variety. 141, punting at Bars etc = regular sex + variety - complications = exactly what we want!

You must have much money to flirt with her and took the initiative of giving lavicious gifts just to impress her.
I really dont understand what made you decide to spend that much money just knowing her for a few days.
Is she that HOT?
That approach certainly just made you an ATM machine.
It would have been better you approach her as a penniless man and see what attention you'll get from her.

[ Last edited by  devilgodspeed at 29-1-2012 09:53 ]

Where did you work that you could meet so many women?  I want to work there!

I have an MBA in marketing and international business development

There is 1 extra part part which I didn't mention.

The girl has a room mate (another girl).  They live in Lockhart street in CWB.   This girl would always have "bets" with me or try to revolve discussions around money.   IF you don't ...., you have to give me $20,000 etc.... I idiotically took up these challenges and the room mate kept threatening me with "if you don't pay up, you'll never get that girl" etc etc.

One day the room mate girl invited me to LKF.  I said yes.... just by coincidence the girl from work bumped into her in CWB street and she invited her self along.  So we went to LKF and I got drunk.....  When leaving.... There was this cute American student who invited me to party the night with her alone....  Both girls didn't accept and told her to leave.

The girl from work, hops into the cab and said she will take me home and then leave.  I didn't want to let her know where I lived.  So I asked to get off on Nathan Road in MK.  The next day I have the girl from work inviting me to Yum Cha and gave me 1 hour abuse how the taxi driver (60+ year old man) attempted to rape her etc...  and "if I bought her a car, she would be safe and didn't need to catch a taxi".  I told her lets go to the police station, and she refused.... " that's in the past... I don't want to think about it anymore".  The next thing I know I'm dragged into another car yard and keeps pointing to cars she likes... oh my god... $300,000 for a car she wants.  

AND so I tested her so called love, by reaching for a hug... She told me I'm not her boyfriend yet and that she is a "traditional" girl, can't let anyone kiss her until MARRIAGE!

AND no, I am not a mainlander or Chinese.    My ego got to me and I got stuck... Lucky I have lots of pocket money in my paypal account so my wife wouldn't notice the bank balance.

Aw man that sucks, I can imagine what a piece of shit she is.. Being an average chubby girl, believing herself to be pretty, and trying to be a gold digger

wow.. she sounds like a typical 港女..... I would stay well away from those in the future if I were you.. they are all over the place in HK....

Same story happened to the great Casanova while he was in London (princess girl who took all his money with no sex)


He mostly committed suicide ... and finally surprised her fucking some random delivery men.

So here we are, few solutions

1) Ask a friend to fuck her, that will destroy the image she built in your mind
2) save your couple, by having someone fucking your wife once, better if you are watching
3) Read the memories of Casanova

....., that I wish to recount my most stupidest punting moments, in hopes of lifting the spirits of a fellow bro.  

But... I forgot most of them!  

And that's the point.  A life lived without going down the "uncharted path" once in a while aint a life.  The great adventures stay with you forever, the blunders quickly forgotten (or indeed still bring a smile to your face in recollection).  

I will recount one very similar episode that occurred in my past.  A beautiful barmaid (what IS IT with me and barmaids???), her body sculpted by god himself, an ass so hard paper money would bounce off, her tits so large and round and (OMG her tits were epic!!).  A face (yes, she had a face too!!!!)  a sight only angels could dwell upon without being blinded.  

Ummm, you get the point.  I was just the teeniest bit smitten with her.

I pursued.  She liked me.  Her "favorite customer".  I asked her out.  "Maybe..., but I never date customers... Everybody talks!".  Yeah.. I get it.  But from then on she flirted like crazy with me.  Drove me nuts..  Lots of touching, lite kisses, but never more.

We got to know each other quite well.  I stared at her miraculous body often, and she showed it off for me often.  But never got to go further.  Then she discusses a serious financial problem.  Gonna take about $2KUSD to solve.  I just got a major promotion.  I was flush!  

The BIG MAN ego decided to come out and join the party.  Asshole!  

I told her not to worry another second about it.  The next nite I returned and passed her an envelope with the required funds.  Felt good.  What a hero, right?  

She gushed and swooned (hehe, yep, I AM a fucking god amongst men!!).  

I let the week go by, not wishing to rush things.  And then I return.  Asked her out again.  "I never go with customers... Everybody talks!!!!".

Fuckin kidding me??
I never did fuck her.

Today I smile as I recount this.  Lord she had a body to die for!!!

A lesson learned --- don't let your ego make your decisions for you.

It seems to me that every girl who get aquainted with you sees you as a very rich man for them to ask for these and that from you? Do they know your bank details and how many millions you have in your bank account? Asking you to buy them an iPhone 4s or and LV bag is already much but asking you to buy them a car? Thats really too much! Its pretty obvious they wana milk you dry.

The problem is those girls knows we think with our dicks, so always the switch and bait technic. Is surprising when you go to massage place that the girls will always give you the same sob story. Only this time is a working OL who thinks she is worth a lot more then she is actaully worth. take the 141 route, at least you know there is no optional extras.