Reply #43 Intenseslacker's post
This is exactly. there is no ambiguity with mongering, unless one falls for the other, which can happen sometimes. Each person comes in and knows what they will put into the deal and what they will get out of it.
there is no :
"you owe me",
"okay this date she is gonna put out because I spent a lot of money on her for dinner, etc"
wheedling for tips,
asking for money for a sick relative, etc.
I want them to Fuxk me, show me a good time for an hour or so, and then disappear from my life and not bother me until the next time I want to see them. This is what you get with commercial sex. this is why I do not believe in having an affair or having a mistress or side girlfriend as some of the KPs and 37Ds have offered to me, I like to keep the rules and roles clearly defined.
with this kind of arrangement You don't get:
SMS,
late night phone calls,
stalking,
people trying to hack into your voice mail,
people telling your wife,
people blackmailing you that they will talk to your wife,
bumping into them in public and their making a scene
same as above but when you are with family members, coworkers, clients
Difficult and embarrassing phone calls at work (this one happened to me until I learned)
From the postings of some of you lads, however the above mentioned drama is fun and you actually seem to like this kind of stuff (Ok not with involving the wife) but the others - the SMS, phone calls, meeting them in Wanchai bars, etc. there was even a story here a few weeks ago about some punter whose neighbor had an Amah that he had seen several times before and so when the family was gone he would literally hop over the fence and hop on her.
this kind of stuff may float his boat but it would damn near drown me. I like to keep my fun at arm's length
keep on mongering 
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