Original Post
disktroyer

27-3-2011 13:54
Reply #25 maccalim's post

Thanks for updating us.

QUOTE:
Am I in love? Maybe, but I don't think so.

My guess is you're in denial.  You're already in love with her but trying to convince yourself that it isn't so (yet).  Otherwise, you won't have this silly guilt feeling when you even just think of punting.

Anyway, have you entertained the thoughts of living with her as your wife or live-in partner?  How does it sums up?  Do you think you can bring her to meet your family?  If you think you're ready for a serious relationship, then let the relationship continue and see where it leads you.

Otherwise, if you don't see her to be part of your future, then the longer you prolong your affair, the more heartbroken both of you will be later (plus more wallet-broken for you - is there such a word?).

Anyway, good luck for whatever decision you make.

UsernameTimeCreditsReason
SEAJ 27-3-2011 22:50 Karma +1 Great retrospective questions!
maccalim 28-3-2011 03:15 Karma +1 Thanks.
JJJ37 28-3-2011 09:19 Karma +1 Good stuff


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