Evolutionary speaking, men go after women with looks and signs of fertility. Women go after men for comfort and support. The attraction is not the based on the same criteria. Sure, there could be butterflies in the tummy but nothing beats more than the cash that can afford a good life. If the man cannot afford her expenses and fees, then she would resort to hot fast cash in the market. Given that HK is a perfect melting pot for it.
Before you smother yourself all over her, start to think from her pov. Did she mention about the 20k and LV bag out of a sudden or you somehow 'directed' her towards the situation? Men experiencing gfe have the tendency to 'flaunt' their masculinity and assets like how male peacocks wave those huge tails. Simply put, did you have her assume that you can afford the lavish life for her?
Though, I'm not saying that she is materialistic. As that is the natural course. If you don't want her to work in the night club, then provide alternative options for her. Give her the trust you can give. Especially when you say she's a milf, so much more to a chinese the age is a taboo. To her, it's not a hop onto the bandwagon then run off when you're done with it.
Perhaps you should think like a woman first. Take out your income statement, do your math. If you can afford her debts/mortgages/lawyer fees, then look at the monthly revenues that can get her an apartment. Do you have remaining for unexpected spendings? Many of these PRC women who after divorce from hk men have this mentality that they can only rely on themselves. Men are assholes. Will the apartment be in whose name? Calculate your estimated cost expenditure for a one year plan, 5 year plan.
Don't just dive into a hot soup before you check. If after all the tedious calculations and you can manage it, do you still have that smile on your face?
That's companionship for you. Also, can you squeeze enough for punts in future or you're happy with onegina? | |
