I dunno mate, you say you would rather pay for sex than have a gf ( granted there isa topic on this, which is cheaper) and yet you are falling for her.. Granted there was no sex involved.
Lemme ask you, you say you don't have many friends cause of work, yet you have time to go out and have sex. You can't be arsed to lose weight yet your friends say you would be attractive if you did lose weight. Would it not be good to take (and I'm sure I'll be Bollocked for saying this) time away from some of your sexcapades and hang out with some friends, perhaps have a beer after work in a bar with chicks around that aren't wg's? See if any catch your fancy, losing weight is not all about taking time and going to the gym, set a goal, even 1 kg a month, eat less crisps, less soda/ iced tea. Drink water and cut down on 'white foods' - rice, eat fruit at lunch, heavy breaky or lunch, light dinner. I did this many years ago and lost about 10kg in 5 months.
If anything either this girl will end up falling for you, or you meet a nice girl with friends. Who knows, whatever makes YOU happy is what matters most.
But as others have said watch your wallet and don't fall too fast and easily.. Seen it many a time with expats getting suckered by Chinese and FIL girls - lots of gold diggers out there, to me first and foremost take care of yourself, lose weight and you will have to fend off the chicks. There is an excess of girls in hk. Think like 2 girls for every guy, most really materialistic (again there is another thread about this), so if you really work at it you will have your pic in the end. When she is in Orc see if the initial 'puppy love' feeling goes away.
My 2 cents, not sure if it makes much sense.. | |
