Guys, need your perspectives....
I'm pouring my heart here so please bear with me. Click the 'back' button if you're expecting some juicy details, 'cos this post is about asking for perspectives from my fellow brethren. This is one of those threads that punter meets woman, punter smitten by woman, punter is now in over his head at woman. This punter is yours truthly, and the woman in question is [bold]not[/bold] a WG (or so she said), she works in a veggie massage salon. I had an 11pm punt in the other side of the island, did not go home immediately (as i'm a skint who does not want to pay HKD150 for a taxi ride back to HK island), so i went to have some cheap seafood at those streetside stalls around the vicinity, and took a stroll with the intent of heading to 37D at around 3-4am for a punt before catching the early MTR back to the island. So i saw this really hot, tight ars PRC milf walking into a massage salon so i followed her in, and realised this place is a legit veggie place, as i saw some woman clienteles getting foot massages, and their body massage area is not so private, so i don't reckoned there are any hanky-panky happy endings. With a stroke of luck, I was assigned with that very same hot milf (let's call her AT), that caught my attention on the streets. [bold]Background of AT[/bold]: AT had just quited her job as a cashier. She's currently going through a divorce proceeding (she married a HK guy). Got her HKID, HK guy cheated on her with multiple women, so she felt aggrieved and decided to left him). Reason she hired a lawyer is becos ex-husband did not want to give her a cent of alimony, and she felt she was entitled to some as she helped out on the guy's business, and it was the guy's fault fooling and sleeping around. But i appreciate that it was her side of the story and things could well very be different from his side. I reserved my judgment on this. At that time, I just found this milf hot. They didn't have any kids. [bold]Background of yours truthly[/bold]: I'm single, approaching my mid 30s, (slightly younger than her) never married. New to HK, don't have many friends. I've a decent job that provides me with a half-decent paycheck, not rich, no assets no car, no family fortune but debt-free. In the looks department, I'm about a bit overweight (but i've been told by a lot of people that i'm decent looking and would be a real charmer if i lost weight, I'm quite a tall bloke and that took the attention from me being overweight, looks of cos is besides the point here, but i'm just trying to say i'm not a fat ugly wanker!). The last time I was in a relationship was years ago. The reason i've never been back in a relationship is becos of work, and i couldn't be arsed with all that courtship BS when i can pay for commercial sex with different women. [bold]Events that transpired[/bold]: Anyway, during the massage, there's no hint of any hanky panky, and we chatted casually like old friends (i'm an expat, but also a mandarin speaker). She was wearing a run-down jeans (still quite tight), and s/sleeve top. I was busy admiring her tight body, cute ars and foxy look and spent two hours with her. (HKD 290 dollars in total with some oil massage). I asked her for her number after the session and she gave it to me. The very next day, i called her out and we spent the whole day shopping (she didnt buy anything expensive, and i paid just HKD30 for a cap for her niece), and having dinner at a restaurant that only cost me HKD300 (she called her sister and her niece along, who happen to live around that area!). Although at one point, she was trying on mid-range clothing that cost HKD 5,000! But she didn't want to buy as it is obviously not worth that price! But at no point did she asked me to pay for it. I had really enjoyed the day spent with her and invited her to my place in HK island. She declined saying she's not the type of woman that will follow a man home on the first date. So we went for some cheap beers at those streetside restaurants after sending off her niece and her sis. After the beer session, (we had about 6 bottles of beers between the two of us), she agreed to let me up to her apartment to rest while waiting for the morning train. This was after i coaxed her into it by promising i won't push her to do anything she didn't feel like, i.e. fucking. We spent the next 3 hours at her tiny matchbox apartment, and we cuddled in bed, some light caressing i.e. no caressing of her crotch. Had some really sensational kissing, LFK and DFK. But no sex, and with both of us almost fully clothed. Even though i could have had more access to her breasts, i was being a gentleman and avoided some serious boobs fondling. Everytime we started DFK, she would hold back after 20 secs or so, only to resume 30 mins later. This went on for the entire 3-4 hours. She said she's afraid of getting in so quickly into a relationship with me, after only meeting my acquaintance for one day and i fully understand that. I'm not sure what i'm after at that time, to be honest (obviously a fuck...?), but at the same time, i really missed that GFE experience which you can only get for an hour with a WG (if you're lucky!). Our background are quite poles apart in every department e.g. education level etc. Plus, she speaks zero english, and although i'm chinese, my preferred mode of communication is English. I speak decent enough mandarin, albeit broken. She left school at a very young age, and is street smart. And of course, she's still legally married! (although she's going through that divorce proceeding currently) I really felt we had something, that feeling called chemistry? love? wtf. AT is a filial daughter. She doted on her family and mother (most of them in China). She's going back visiting in PRC soon for a few weeks, and the next time i can see her will probably be in April. We chatted about making plans for those guided tours around HK/China/Thailand later part of this year. I just missed that GFE/relationship feeling. I called her tonight and she's at a friend's place. She didn't lie to me or anything, and she did mention that today she was going to spend time with a friend and possibly treating that friend to a meal for introducing her to a money-making opportunity. (i realised it's a guy from the background voice). I got really jealous. Throughout our beer session, she did mentioned that a friend introduced her to a Mamasan job at a nightclub, and she's seriously considering that offer. She made it clear her objective post-divorce is to make money as quickly as possible to be self-sustainable (she left her husband without a cent, hence the legal proceeding to get some alimony/money); her dream is to buy an apartment. Had it not been me, she would have returned to her part-time veggie massage job in the salon operated by a friend after our dinner, and she made that remark that she would never miss making money from jobs just to go shopping/dinner. She needs money to pay the legal fees. But she forfeited jobs that night to spend time with me. She also kept harping on the fact that i'm younger than her, and her ideal man is someone older, in their mid-40s. But I can sense she felt something for me too. Never at any point that night did she ask me for money. (although i did joke that i am willing to make her my kept woman), and in a way, 'led' her into thinking I can provide for her, which was not the ideal way to start this. I'm in that situation where i don't know what to do now.... shall i pursue that relationship knowing that she's street-smart, and possibly stringing me along for a big windfall, not that i have a lot of money myself, but i live a comfortable life within my means and can still afford a few punts a week. I'm not looking for any advice nor counselling. Just your thoughts please. P.S: It's a worthy mention that today, i visited 37D to try to get her out of my system, but my mind is still all about her, so much so that i couldn't really concentrate on my punt with a hot model-like shanghainese girl!
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