Originally posted by Deggwin at 6-1-2011 18:47
I think it's better to say "I use WGs because it's fun. It's fun because I'm programmed to think it's fun. It's not fun to override that programming."
And I'm in a slightly different situat ...
Im in with Deggwin, and a few others here.- I love my girlfriend and she's a great lay, however I love pizza, and it's a great meal- i could eat it every day, but how many different ways can you eat a pizza before you stop eating it entirely?
I don't kiss WG's (when I do, i feel guilt) and most of the time, I don't have full inter with them, share my real name, or much of my real self.
I think the line of cheating comes in when your intent becomes about creating a relationship with someone that will rival/equal the one you have with your spouse.
a shag is a shag (especially a paid one), and a relationship is something entirely different. If you find yourself looking for a better relationship, then its probably time to leave your first one- for your sake, if not her's. my partner is a bit of a stunner (i know, everyone thinks so) and i have met girls who were an even better looker, for that night- but never (yet) have i met one that I would replace my missus for, pro or not.
I have had this debate with the opposite sex before, and it seems the consensus (with reasonably mature women at least) is that a "slip" from their spouse is one thing, but running off to the bahamas with the co-worker...... well that is divorce proceedings and a 50% tax. |
