Some may be more familiar with the Indian equivalent Tantric sex which is a practice from the Tantra Philosophy/Religion.
Atleast one technique is to concentrate on how it feels for your partner, with practice you feel what your partner feels*, effectively a positive feedback loop. The end result is you do what feels best for your partner and get to enjoy her orgasms without the down side of ejaculation. The non ejactulatory orgasm is different for me, like a wave of pleasure rolling up your back before crashing over your head. *words fail to describe the indescribable and that is close as I can put it.
"I feel you you feel me": Enigma sums it up pretty well.
Doesn't work with all partners only those who are willing to enjoy themselves and share (hard to put but some woman just dont let you feel (inc LT GF BB)) while a times with total strangers you feel every twitch.
Can turn casual encounters into a bit of a head fcuk
Interesting book from the female practitioners perspective, bought my copy in Singapore so its "Rate Family Safe "
The Sexual Teachings of the White Tigress: Secrets of the Female Taoist Masters
In the context of seeing WG's
Condoms make it more difficult (no an excuse for BBS).
If you are still at it after 45mins many WG are not going to be impressed.
WG work for money and while many may well enjoy an orgasm or two with clients, this is up to a point. Give a WG 5 orgasm as you suggest and with aching back, stomach, leg and arm muscles she is not going to be in the best shape to see another 4 or 5 clients, . Many will take the perspective that this is 3 times the effort for the price of one client. If they want to be screwed out of their minds they know plenty of talent to select from, at a time of their choosing.
In a way it's like taking a rental car rally driving.
If you plan to do this sort of thing LT bargirls are the ones who are most likely to be receptive, ST girls (especially early 20;s) tend to hate this. Zavier Hollendar goes to great length to explain in her book "happy hooker", her pet hate is guys trying to impress a WG and wearing her out in the process.
There was an passionate plea on a forum requesting whoever was turning up to a particular boutique Asian establishment and banging the girls non stop for an hour, to stop (the area suggested a drug user and not a taoist master), the guy was almost crying on the keyboard.
There is a dark side to all this, which I glimpse in my self at times. Egotist with a need to impress, can twist into revenge* for all the girls that ignored you in the past when was skinny and covered in pimples. *
Now you will never forget me kind of twisted logic
I struggle in many posts to keep my ego out of it (yes I fail miserably at times).
The following is an example of how they may see the time should play out in 45mins
New girls in Brothels often work off the clock for their first few sessions until they get use to the rhthym
45mins
5min shower
5min warm up
10 min BJ (often divided up into sub tasks)
10min Sex (1min ACG, 2min CG, 5 min missionary, finish in doggie)
5 min clean up and snuggle
5 min shower
last 5mins he has already gone
I have seen them keep glancing at the clock and switch activity several times in a session as the digital clock ticks over on the minute.
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