Reply #20 chap314's post
SEAJ was showing how to use it. he gave it back on the next post you had, so its like it never happened, as the + and - zeroed each other out.
your frustrations are typical for newbies in this forum, but due to the sensitive nature of the forum (specifically working girls whose relatives may have no idea what they do for a living), there are ladders to climb and trust to be earned. it happens to everyone, just chill and once your credibility is established, members will start to react positively to your reports. having said that, you have received Ks and As in the past, so it isnt like you've been ignored. the more reports you post, the faster you establish this credibility, which is the key currency in an anonymous forum like this one.
we registered at approx the same time. my first few posts earned something like 7k, as members had to check out who the heck is this new guy. try to report more, and appreciation of you will climb. i dont know if you're based in HK or not, but i'm not, and i've had more reports posted than you. i'm not crowing about it, just giving you pointers on how to earn credibility. solid reports, and frequent, if possible, so everyone remembers you, before the next newbie comes along.
at the end of the day, the forum is better with more contributors, to move closer to the impossible task of providing complete info about the mongering scene. while you can stay or you can go, if you're a true blue mongerer, leaving could be to your detriment.
good luck with whatever is your decision
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