Originally posted by kefu26 at 13-9-2010 11:40
... where can you get the best service (141, massage, etc etc) and hence the best chance of a good orgasm? ...
the issue I see is we could give you our favourites, and tell you exactly what we did to get our best experiences ... but ... there's no guarantee it would work for you.
Actually, we KNOW it won't work for you: the reality is we DO give you our best contacts, and tell you what we did, just read the reports 
which proves that taking your question at face value and telling you where it is we go for our best shots wouldn't help you, because it hasn't.
So I'm wondering what we can do to help?
Here's what I do to get a good orgasm:-
1. invest the time to find girls I get more excited by. This means an extra hour or so browsing the website, but means I find "gems in the rough". There's no rush greater than noticing a new hot girl arrive on the db, and wondering just how soon I can get to see her ... even at the 141 level (where the turnover is much slower) there are a couple of new hotties every month within a 1/2hr trip from my starting point. Knowing who's hot and who's not is just as much part of the hobby as reading the reports for titillation and for new tips. Practicing looking through the pixellated and PS'd pics, to spot the underlying talent, is as much fun as the punt itself.
2. make sure I'm hungry. Yup, that means avoiding sex or wanking for a day or even two. Personally I usually have the opposite problem, and need to shoot one in advance to reduce my hunger before seeing a girl, but if I'm feeling low on energy, tired, down, I do sometimes need to pace myself instead of knocking one out in the morning before the punt. So I know it works.
3. practice some tricks. Every position is different. You get a different level of stimulation depending how you position yourself and your girl, and even a slight change in angle or depth can make all the difference. For example if I'm on my Second Cumming, I often can't hold lying doggie, but I do just great with a sideways scissor position. Another good trick to practice is closing your eyes and fantasising: that can bring the most mundane experience back to life. You have to find out what turns you on most,and make a point of getting to know just exactly how your body works. Although we're all guys, we are all different (read the reports and it's obvious). You are ultimately the ONLY one who CAN know what you like, and it is 100% your responsibility to get to know yourself, where your triggers are, and how to set off the fireworks.
4. relax during the session. It's easy to get wound up because she's not into it, because she wasn't as hot as in the pics, because the clock is ticking, etc. etc. (name your favourite paranoia). If your goal is to come, it makes it harder. If your goal is just to have as much fun as you can with the pussy your dick is inside, my own experience is to end up having more fun.
5. try NOT to come. Yup it's one of those funny situations: the harder you try the harder it becomes. Many of my biggest releases have happened when I was trying to delay as long as possible, trying not to move too much, trying to pleasure her without pleasuring myself ... then ... nature takes over and the unavoidable happens.
6. take control if you have to. Don't expect her to do all the work, some girls just lack the skill or the motivation, but they are ALL there to please you and want to get you off as quick as they can. As long as you don't hurt her she literally wants you to use her body for your ultimate pleasure ... don't be shy, go for it ... worst case you have fun, and best case she'll get wrapped up into your enthusiasm also.
and 7. I guess we also need to add: be willing to walk. There's nothing worse than feeling you have to perform, because you agreed to walk in the door and will have to pay, even if the Kingdom doesn't come. Let yourself walk away from marginal situations, where the agent has pissed you off, where the look in her eye is less than admiring, where the pit of your stomach tells you this is going to be another difficult one ... Again, get to know yourself, and walk away.
Nothing breeds success like success ... and you have to get to know your personal success formula as if your life (or at least your sex-life) depends on it ...
So your best bet is to focus all your attention on figuring what was different between your good punts and your bad punts, and aim to repeat the experience.
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