Original Post
liberty8

16-7-2010 22:07


My take on this,

Guy has an issue

lack of confidence, lack of success with girls, virginity etc

Gos and lays a WG, rinse and repeat twice a week like clockwork

result a young guy who still has lack of confidence, lack of success with girls but has learnt to rely on an 'alternative'  subconciousy i think you realise that its not a solution, and that the WG experience though great, no way prepares you for the realities of Pursuing a relationship (except for the psysical 'moves').

However it is a trap. example, you try it on with a real girl, but your confidece isnt up to it or ou get rejected, what do you do? go pay to get laid right? it didnt solve the underlying issue

my advice, by all means continue to do what your doing, but mix it up. change the times, and the types. at 22, you're still developing into your sexuality, find out your liks and dislikes. that is first. and most importantly remember its recreation not life, it isnt meant to be instead of a GF, certainly not at 22

secondly, consider improving your skills with real women, there isnt enough time/space on a forum post to explain how, suffice to say, there are many ways. friends, pickup etc but if you're serious about it, im sure you will find a way to learn.

good luck

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Mister 16-7-2010 22:17 Acceptance +3 Yes, we were all 22 once.


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