am i asexual or gay? how can i enjoy sex a little bit more
Its been around 3 month since i lost my virginity to a wg. Since then, i ve been mongering for like 2 times a week, and I find that sex isnt as great as it is advertised? Did the media put too much hype into sex? and its giving a false impression of what it really like? Yes when im aroused I feel like having sex with a girl but after I ejaculated, I felt nothing. Sometimes the girl would want to chat afterwards but I just wanted to leave asap. Also the act of sex itself was fun for the first 5 minutes or after that i get bored and i pound as hard as I could and ejaculate and get over with it. Not only that the girl has a routine, i also have one now, I would kiss her neck, then her nipples, ears, cheeks and then makeout... etc. Its like im too lazy to even think of a new routine that i will do the girls. Its like "freaking hormone, just get lost already and let me go home and study". Right now im just going through the motions. Tues and Thurs , "oh its time, okay" .. *picks up the phone*
I personally find that girls with clothes on are a little more appealing to me and more fun to check out. While waiting for class, checking out the short skirts and the low cut tops seems to be more interesting to me.
do i need a real relationship for me to enjoy sex a little more? Im having sex with a different girl each time I cant imagine having sex with 1 girl for the rest of my life. Should i alter my schedule? I have school mon wed and fri and the only time i can have sex is tues and thurs, is the routine making the sex less enojoyable? Sometimes even when im not horny , and its a tues and a thurs I would still go.
maybe it has to do with the korean girls i exclusivlely do? they have this mechanical routine , maybe that is turning me off?
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