Reply #6 xiexie987's post
There have been several threads about developing relationships with, and even getting married to, WGs and the comments have been very mixed.
I can only speak from my own experiences and it is very tough if you let your emotions get carried away. Its only natural for a man to hate the idea of anyone else touching his woman, and of course its even worse imagining someone else having sex with her.
I am not going to mention names, because I'm already in trouble but I recently spent almost a week with a WG who I visited half a dozen times when she was working here and who I really liked, on a friendly basis, as she really has character and is very different from any of the other WGs I've had over the years. Some are complete sluts, others are terrified young gals who have been roped into the business because of debts or worse.
Most of the gals you come across will have sad stories to tell of having to support families, or having a sick grandmother needing an operation or a brother they have to support through school. Many such stories are told in other to solicit bigger tips.
Others have genuine needs and prostitution was probably the only way out.
Some will say that a gal with morals will never stoop to this, but where do you draw the line between normal gals who sleep with guys after expensive dinners and presents?
I guess it might be the fact that they are shacked up in a hotel room with an endless stream of guys showing up, depending on their popularity.
Yes, some popular gals service like 14 to 15 men a day.
But after that, can they ever really lead a normal life, find a husband, have kids?
With sites like this, there is always the chance that their past will be found out. Could you handle finding out that the gal you married had had sex with several hundred guys for money in her past? I know I would find it very difficult, if not impossible. If nothing else, the issue is very likely to come up during arguments and fights. It think it would take a stronger man than me to handle it.
Going out and getting laid might get it out of your system, bro, but it is hard to control your heart and your head when it comes to issues like this. You have my sympathy.
I think what might be better advice is that you try hard to find yourself a girlfriend or two who arent WGs for true feelings and relationship and try to keep the commercial sex aspect separate.
All I can tell you is that it can be very hard when you meet a WG who when she's off duty is just like any other gal with her emotions and feelings.
It is so easy to say the wrong thing to her when at the back of your mind you might be thinking of the fact that perhaps just yesterday she was being pounded by man after man.
I know this might not help you, but I just thought I'd share a little of my own experience. | |
