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Jealous of WG

Could somebody please help me? Does anybody share this same feeling?
I am so jealous of the WGs! I mean come on, she can get as many cocks as she wants AND she will get paid for it. Not all punters are ugly or out of shape. In fact, in an all-out beauty competition, there will be so many cases of where the WG would never even stand a chance to be with that man. Yet, because of the man's desire to unload he will just pay her for what is essentially, a good score for the WG.

This feeling burns me up inside Very Very Badly.

Please do not joke around with your replies, and only if you have something helpful to say or reasons to build in my mind about the logic that takes place in this situation then contribute.

I am cut deep by this... Makes me very depressed.
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Originally posted by xiexie987 at 17-4-2010 09:17
Could somebody please help me? Does anybody share this same feeling?

Bro, as a punter, you are miles in front. You get to F*CK when you want to. For that service you pay a little money. The WG's have to F*CK whether they want to or not, that's the deal. Don't be jealous, just relax and enjoy the hobby.
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Could you clarify a little, bro?
Are you jealous of the fact that the WGs get lots of sex and get paid for it or are you hooked up on a particular WG and jealous of the fact that other men can just pay and get to fuck her? I think there's a big difference.
Unless you're a woman, I don't think there's much point being jealous of her general profession! There are a lot of downsides to being a WG.

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Originally posted by xiexie987 at 17-4-2010 09:17
Could somebody please help me? Does anybody share this same feeling?
I am so jealous of the WGs! I mean come on, she can get as many cocks as she wants AND she will get paid for it. Not all punters ar ...

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I would agree with Tony Toro and Siklong, as a punter you have the advantage...

While some WG's will turn down prospective clients if they dont like the look or get the wrogn vibe, many don't or can't...and we've seen the cases of some WG's getting abused or worse by punters with a bad attitude

What is your reasoning behind being jealous, as the way you've phrased this to begin with is a little confusing...

Do you have an issue with people seeing WG's?

Or is it that you feel somehow that afetr the deed, theres an issue as she got paid for pleasuring you?

I think you just need to explain a little more about what you mean and why, and then you might get some more feedback
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Post at 17-4-2010 12:42  Profile P.M. 
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I think this thread is a joke ... and if the OP does not clarify I will close this thread !
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Post at 17-4-2010 12:42  Profile P.M. 
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I am so thankful for your replies.

Without getting into too much details for discretion, I recently met a WG whom I had a 20min road trip with. I have not "seen" her as a customer, but just talking to her throughout the journey made me realise what a nice woman she was. Ever since we met, she kept on stareing at me. I mean long stares, not just glances. I found out she was young and just wanted money for her education fees and life etc, so she is doing this job. It has been from then onwards, that I have been getting thoughts about so many customers banging her day-in, day-out. It almost made me sick. In fact, during our conversation she told me that yesterday she saw 10 customers so she is very tired today. I started feeling sorry for her... and im not sure if my sympathy showed.

After a while I realised, it was like she was enjoying doing this. I found out every month, she works for just 1 weekend and makes as much money as she can. She didnt seem to care at all what she was doing and how she was doing. She was just thinking she can get money whenever she wants, orgasms whenver she wants, and gets paid for it all. She even went on to tell me how sometimes so many handsome young men see her...

If not already evident, I am very new to this industry. This has turned into a real sensitive spot for me recently, so please dont make me cry out loud with any harsh comments, Seriously.

After writing this, I dont even know whether my feelings are jealously. Is that the right word? On second thoughts, I mean she gets to enjoy sex with handsome young men all diff races and gets paid huge $$$. Hmmmm... Feeling depressed.
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For some reason i assume for every handsome man there are at least 2 ugly customers.  If you ever worked customer service you'd understand that theyre are many more jerks than nice customers.
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Reply #6 xiexie987's post

Somehow it is not clear whether you mean JEALOUSY or ENVY. From your latest post it sounds like you might envy the fact that she can make lots of money by just spreading her legs while we working stiffs work so hard to make money.
Previously, it also sounds like you might have feelings for her and that it somehow makes you bad to think about all those men shagging her.
I can identify with both somehow, but being a male, obviously the envy would be to work as a gigolo and screw lots of gorgeous women and get paid for it, but I once chatted with a gigolo and he said that unfortunately most of the women he serviced were not very attractive and it was very hard work.
As far as jealousy or feeling bad is concerned, I have come close to falling in love with a few WGs that I had great GFE with and that can be very tough. It is not nice to be thinking about a gal that you feel some fondness for being shagged by ten or more men per day when at that same time you might wish that YOU were with her.
There are some rich guys around who when they develop an attachment to a WG, even if it is only sort of a friendship, can afford to take them out of circulation and put them up in a falt and have them exclusively. There have been times when I have wished that I could do that, but I am not rich. I also know that pretty soon I would probably either get too attached to the gal or I would get bored. I guess using a WG like this is a slightly better alternative to having a non-WG mistress, with all the hassles that getting rid of her might entail.
I have had some rich playboy friends in the past and they have had to pay big amounts to get rid of some women.
I can even say that I have envied some of these mistresses for ending up with a nice cash settlement and a flat just for spending some time getting shagged by a dude! Life can be complicated!
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Originally posted by xiexie987 at 17-4-2010 12:42
Without getting into too much details for discretion, I recently met a WG whom I had a 20min road trip with. I have not "seen" her as a customer, but just talking to her throughout the journey made me realise what a nice woman she was...

Bro, seems like you have 2 issues.

(1) You have the "hots" for a WG and the mere thought other Bros could be banging her drives you nuts.
Solution: CLICK HERE find something you like and nail her... best medicine is getting back on the horse Bro.

(2) As a result of (1) you are now also thinking about how it seems "unfair" that these gals can make a shit load of money just for riding a horny Bro's pole.
Solution: accept that you are wrong Bro, the down side of being a WG is far greater than the upside. There aren't too many girls from wealthy backgrounds and happy home life who "choose" this kind of work freely...

Seriously Bro, have a punt... You'll feel much better. ENJOY!
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getting to enjoy sex is the wrong approach. i am sure once in a while she will find a punter attractive and actually enjoy it but having to suck 10 to 13 dicks a day and spreading your legs for them is in most cases probably far from enjoyment. so no reason to feel jealous.
as you seem to get along with her you should try to find her and make an appointment. as the two of you serm to get along she might actually enjoy her time with you.but you will need to pay for that and might get jealous yourself if you develope deeper feelings for her.
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Originally posted by xiexie987 at 17-4-2010 12:42
Without getting into too much details for discretion, I recently met a WG whom I had a 20min road trip with. I have not "seen" her as a customer, but just talking to her throughout the journey made me realise what a nice woman she was. Ever since we met, she kept on stareing at me. I mean long stares, not just glances. I found out she was young and just wanted money for her education fees and life etc, so she is doing this job. It has been from then onwards, that I have been getting thoughts about so many customers banging her day-in, day-out. It almost made me sick. In fact, during our conversation she told me that yesterday she saw 10 customers so she is very tired today. I started feeling sorry for her... and im not sure if my sympathy showed.

After a while I realised, it was like she was enjoying doing this. I found out every month, she works for just 1 weekend and makes as much money as she can. She didnt seem to care at all what she was doing and how she was doing. She was just thinking she can get money whenever she wants, orgasms whenver she wants, and gets paid for it all. She even went on to tell me how sometimes so many handsome young men see her...

If not already evident, I am very new to this industry. This has turned into a real sensitive spot for me recently, so please dont make me cry out loud with any harsh comments, Seriously.

After writing this, I dont even know whether my feelings are jealously. Is that the right word? On second thoughts, I mean she gets to enjoy sex with handsome young men all diff races and gets paid huge $$$. Hmmmm... Feeling depressed.

Think of it this way, she needs to have a positive outlook on the way she makes a living.  Do you expect her to cry and sob about all the ugly, stinky, fat men she had to service?  She was probably treated like an actual person by a couple of good mongers and she holds those thoughts to get her through her everyday grind.  If you had to scope cow dung to help put food on the table for your family, you would probably focus on how it's outdoors, and that there isn't much micro managing or whatever to get you through the day.
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Reply #1 xiexie987's post

I am bi, and I assure you that I would not have sex with any of the other customers I have seen at the walkups, even if they paid me. Maybe she finds them handsome, but I don't.
So even though I like sex with men, it would be be a horrible job to be in a WG position as far as I am concerned.
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Wow! I am simply amazed by each of your replies to help me build some logic to get through my current feelings. For this, I am greatly thankful to the 141forum. I have found such a nice place to be part of.

The thing that comforts me somewhat in this situation is that "the down side of being a WG is far greater than the upside" with reasons as explained by many of you... Not to sound too selfish, but atleast the WG is not having it all as easy as I originally thought.

bro Siklong69, the more I think about my feelings I think its the disgust that comes from realising any old man, fat man, bald man (just taken as an example - not to offend anybody here) etc, can fuck her! Look, most of us probably have some race or certain types of people we do not like. For example, some people are racist and really hate Black people or a certain race. Well? You lot imagine a black man doing her... do you feel disgusted? As another example, some people have a stigma with bald people.. "oh he's such a loser he has no hair". You lot imagine a bald man doing her... do you feel disgusted? I think you get the point now... How can I ever get over this kind of disgust!!?????????

Now, the thing that comforts me most is that I establish as a punter I am in the box seat. Its my choice if I want to ever be with her! Sorry to sound too chumby hehe .. but I have never ever paid for any sexual services... In this forum im almost   but this place is great to ask such sensitive questions! thx to all.
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Reply #6 xiexie987's post

There have been several threads about developing relationships with, and even getting married to, WGs and the comments have been very mixed.
I can only speak from my own experiences and it is very tough if you let your emotions get carried away. Its only natural for a man to hate the idea of anyone else touching his woman, and of course its even worse imagining someone else having sex with her.
I am not going to mention names, because I'm already in trouble but I recently spent almost a week with a WG who I visited half a dozen times when she was working here and who I really liked, on a friendly basis, as she really has character and is very different from any of the other WGs I've had over the years. Some are complete sluts, others are terrified young gals who have been roped into the business because of debts or worse.
Most of the gals you come across will have sad stories to tell of having to support families, or having a sick grandmother needing an operation or a brother they have to support through school. Many such stories are told in other to solicit bigger tips.
Others have genuine needs and prostitution was probably the only way out.
Some will say that a gal with morals will never stoop to this, but where do you draw the line between normal gals who sleep with guys after expensive dinners and presents?
I guess it might be the fact that they are shacked up in a hotel room with an endless stream of guys showing up, depending on their popularity.
Yes, some popular gals service like 14 to 15 men a day.
But after that, can they ever really lead a normal life, find a husband, have kids?
With sites like this, there is always the chance that their past will be found out. Could you handle finding out that the gal you married had had sex with several hundred guys for money in her past? I know I would find it very difficult, if not impossible. If nothing else, the issue is very likely to come up during arguments and fights. It think it would take a stronger man than me to handle it.
Going out and getting laid might get it out of your system, bro, but it is hard to control your heart and your head when it comes to issues like this. You have my sympathy.
I think what might be better advice is that you try hard to find yourself a girlfriend or two who arent WGs for true feelings and relationship and try to keep the commercial sex aspect separate.
All I can tell you is that it can be very hard when you meet a WG who when she's off duty is just like any other gal with her emotions and feelings.
It is so easy to say the wrong thing to her when at the back of your mind you might be thinking of the fact that perhaps just yesterday she was being pounded by man after man.
I know this might not help you, but I just thought I'd share a little of my own experience.

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Post at 17-4-2010 20:41  Profile P.M. 
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You can join their rank by opening up your behind. Then you don't have to be jealous of them.
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Reply #13 xiexie987's post

Just to let you know, I'm fat, bald and old, and yet when the gal I was talking about, even thoguh I had made it very clear to her that I'm not rich, chose me to go out with both here and when she came back from her home village in China to SZ, so go figure. Some of the gals feel safe and secure with a father figure. Psychologists have a name for it. I'm sure she enjoyed some of the sex sessions with the young studs and she actually told me that there were a few that she just refused when they came to the door. Some gals build the right to refusal into the deal with the agent before they come, but others, those who are paying off a debt for one, are not given a choice and have to take whoever comes or they get scolded or even beaten.
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Originally posted by Siklong69 at 18-4-2010 04:18
Just to let you know, I'm fat, bald and old, and yet when the gal I was talking about, even thoguh I had made it very clear to her that I'm not rich, chose me to go out with both here and when she came back from her home village in China to SZ, so go figure. Some of the gals feel safe and secure with a father figure. Psychologists have a name for it. I'm sure she enjoyed some of the sex sessions with the young studs and she actually told me that there were a few that she just refused when they came to the door. Some gals build the right to refusal into the deal with the agent before they come, but others, those who are paying off a debt for one, are not given a choice and have to take whoever comes or they get scolded or even beaten.

You could also have a certain personality and charisma.  I was out to lunch with a new friend and he had no problems chatting up and getting this hot bartenders info.  He's 60, fat, white and a heavy smoker.  But boy he was running game that I never thought about running.
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But all you bro's that visit WG's must surely hate a certain type of people visiting the same WG as you, before or after you.
How do YOU get over that disgust? I do not know how to. That's probably why I have never visiting a WG (for sexual services), though I do have friends in related areas which is how I met this girl i originally talked about.

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Reply #18 xiexie987's post

You just have to force yourself not to think that way or you'll be put off punting! One reason I have stopped visiting walkups is that I never felt comfortable mingling with other bros in dark stairways and corridors and often meeting them on the way in or out.The agents for HGs seem to time everything better so that you leve a hotel room after a nice time and you're unlikely to run into the next guy and vice versa.
Its when you become emotionally entangled with a gal that you start obsessing about her other customers and pretty soon you imagine almost any guy you see in the street banging her. Its something else you have to discipline yourself against doing.
Technically speaking, anyone with, say, $800 in his pocket and access to this site can bang any $800 WG listed here.
If he doesn't appear to be too much of a monster, most of the gals will take him on. You just have to get over it and accept that if you're going out with a WG.
Your other choice is to 'bao' her, as the Chinese say, which means that you pay for ALL her time on a monthly basis so nobody else can have her. Can you afford that? Can you be sure that when you're not physically around that she won't slip in a favourite customer whose number she has and who she knows is a great tipper? Just to make a little extra?
Even if you marry her, can you be sure she won't hear from old customers and be tempted to just do it one more time? After all what difference does one more dick make if you're already done 948 before?
Its a dangerous frame of mind to get into so I stick by my advice of finding yourself a nice nonWG gal and maybe just punt once in a while as a commercial transaction.

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Reply #19 Siklong69's post

Really great advice.  Thank you
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