Ex-WG never really deletes the "W"...
There are so many interesting aspects to this subject, and especially this particular story, that I just wanted to share with you young studs here because of all the good advice I've been given. Even at the risk of the 3rd party (the sponsor or privatizer) being a reader, I think the story should be told and enjoyed.
In an earlier thread entitled "Dilemma - dating a WG", I first told the story of visiting a WG, getting to know her, going out for meals, small gifts, etc. Then feeling sad upon learning that she will leave her room after another frequent guest (sook hak) offered to privatize her, gave her a lump sum, a monthly stipend, and have her move in with him. After posting here my sadness, your advices helped me out of my sadness and depression, and helped me look at these situations in a much more positive way.
Since then I've met this ex-WG twice; first time, just had a meal and good discussion with her. This second time, I met her, brought back from Thailand some very nice kiddies' watches for her to give to her nieces and nephews, a Donna Karan perfume set that I got on special promotion at Sydney Airport. We met yesterday afternoon, and without even having a tea or coffee, she led me straight to a nice short-time villa on Tak Shing street in Jorday. Nice room, nicely air-con, $170 for 2 hours.
Had a long discussion about many different things -- her situation, money, relationship with her sponsor, how her life was going, my brother's illness from cancer in Sydney, what she should spend her free time doing, etc. The details are highly interesting, but I don't just feel right for me to tell everything here because some things should stay private.
Anyway, we then showered, and made like it was our wedding night even though I am 67 yo and she about 30. Great GFE, true feelings, cuddling. She brought me back to my youth days when I was courting and finally marrying my now ex-wife. The WG had of course brought the condom, even though the villa does provide one, and secretly in my bag, I had Durex. Real or fake moaing, probably fake for her, real for me.
After our 1.5 hours session in the room was up, we went for afternoon tea at a nearby cafe for pizza, salad, and great HK style milk tea. Even then, I noodled in my mind, should I offer her some money or not? But then I thought, well, I (at her initial request) got the kiddie's watches for her from Bangkok (HK$200 total), DK perfumes as gift ($170), room ($170), and afternoon tea ($70). Would she be insulted if I offered? So I decided to pass on offering to pay. We then said goodbye and I went into Jordan MTR station and she left.
About to board train, I get a call from her, and she says (in cantonese), "You didn't pay me some small money. You know I need money for my family in China. If you wish, you can pay me next time." Upon hearing that, I said, "Wait. I'm coming right back up, and wait for me at Jordan MTR station exit." So I went back up, paid her $500, and said goodbye again.
So, what's the moral of this story. I guess it's, "once a WG, difficult to drop the 'W' from the girl, and always a WG when $ comes first..."
There is a risk that her sponsor/privatizer will read this, since I suppose that's how he first got her info from this site, and went up to her room. For sure, his English is good. But the minute she called me back and asked for payment, I guess the transaction became commercial and the risk of her being exposed is no greater than any WG offering their services and photos on this site, even if the face is pixelated.
Peace to all and hope you enjoyed this tale. And for the few who exposed their feelings on this board about falling for a WG, I think there is not much chance that you can ever prevent them from doing what they know best to earn some money whenever they feel a need.
[ Last edited by tangoll at 11-6-2009 09:44 ] | |
