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tangoll	18-5-2009 20:36
	I can call you kid... The other posters may have to call you "uncle", but I can call you "son, or kid, or youngster".  I'm 67, and I had posted on the other thread of a similar title.  The question you want to ask yourself is not "do I want a life with her?" but "can I have a life without her?" If your gut answer to the second question is a resounding "NO", then you just go for it, and let the chips fall where they may and you deal with the issues and problems as they come up -- your current kids, babies, physical and emotional needs, your and her family, material things, etc etc.  Try to picture what life would be like 5 and 10 years out with her and without her, and then do today what your gut tells you.  You are the only one who can influence what happens to you in the future; everything others say or do is pure speculation.

Username	Time	Credits	Reason
DArtagnan	19-5-2009 09:10	Karma +1	Words of wisdom, Uncle!!

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