Hey all,

I am looking to try and get into this whole SA arrangement thing just because I am a sucker for GFE. For those of you that have already engaged in it I was wondering if you had any tips/tricks and big no-nos. FYI I have an SA account already.

Also any additional reading access points are much appreciated as there are a few reviews on the free lancer thread that talk about SA girls which im keen to check out.

First rule: Never send any money before meeting a girl

There's a lot of gold diggers there so watch out for red flags.

I had quite a few nice experiences with girl i met on SA.

How do i do it:
I chat first, to see what kind of girl is it, what she wants, if she have some experience in SB. Then i ask for a first meeting, in a public spot, a restaurant so we can know each other a little bit, feel the vibe etc.  I give her a small amount to confirm that i'm serious.
If it goes well, then the next meeting is at my house, i order something to eat or i cook. I offer a massage with options for more if the chemistry is there but it depends. So the girl isn't forced to have intimacy if she doesn't want to (But i always asked first if she's open to when we talk)

I like PPM (pay per meeting) so i'm not into monthly allowance (For me it's a red flag if the girl wants that at start, gotta build trust before)

There's a lot of information on this forum about SA, but in the restricted section to avoid lurkers.

If you want access to it, start posting more actual reports (perhaps of WGs if not SA girls).

Yeah, solid first rule. Ignore anyone who starts asking for money before you even meet. Of course you need to talk about allowance before meeting, and it's pretty common now for them to ask for a small gift at the first meet, but don't give anyone money before no matter if their car is broken or their rent is due.

You can't really openly talk about allowance on the site anymore apparently, so you'll need to text or chat somewhere else to talk about that. And yeah, never go for monthly allowance first, always PPM, at least for a few months. I've never had a good experience with monthly allowance, they seem to become flakier when it's no longer PPM.