Subject: What to do if you can't cum...
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Post at 20-1-2009 11:40  Profile P.M. 
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What to do if you can't cum...

I'm not an old guy popping Viagra like M&Ms.  I'm in my late 20s and have no problem with erections.  But I've had several providers at 141s who have bad attitudes and given rotten service  And when they do, I find it impossible to cum or even have an erection.  One time, I completely lost my erection and she can't make me hard, not even with BBBJ.  Perhaps I'm just thinking too much, but if I feel the girl is just rushing me out the door or cops an attitude, I simply can't "do it".  In these cases, what would you do?

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Post at 20-1-2009 13:42  Profile P.M. 
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I never had that before... maybe the girl was just bad???
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Reply #1 furryfriend's post

Leave!  For me, 90% of little bro happens in my mind.  If I think the girl is rushing or I'm not enjoying it then little bro shows his displeasure.  I pay her something for her trouble and leave.  No use whipping a dead horse [so to speak].  It hasn't happened often, but I don't see the sense in sticking around when you're clearly not into it!
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Post at 20-1-2009 17:28  Profile P.M.  Yahoo!
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I had this sexperiance once as the gal was totally switch off.
what i did was closed my eyes and try to recall back the best japanes AV actress porn i like best.
it work for that onces...
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Post at 20-1-2009 21:46  Profile P.M. 
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this shit happened to me one... and it was based on bad service....
i just fucked her harder... its all in the mind...
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Post at 20-1-2009 21:49  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 furryfriend's post

I jerk and cum on her tits...and rub all over, I try to aim for the face!!!




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Post at 20-1-2009 21:55  Profile P.M. 
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Hunter... gotta take a page out of ur book...
i'm gonna aim for their faces next time they piss me off!!
hahaha..
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Post at 21-1-2009 09:57  Profile P.M. 
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by cnf at 20-1-2009 09:46 PM
this shit happened to me one... and it was based on bad service....
i just fucked her harder... its all in the mind...

I can't fuck harder...I can't even get erect!

I know it's all in the mind.  But I dont' wanna pay $400 and just walk out.
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Post at 21-1-2009 10:39  Profile P.M. 
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relax! perhaps book for a longer appointment!

dont fuck for the sake of fucking!

dont wank too much at home!

too much stress from other things perhaps!
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Post at 21-1-2009 11:26  Profile P.M. 
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Dude, don't think too much!  Thats my problem.  I'm older that you but don't use viagra or anything as getting an erection is no problem.  But what is a problem is when I start banging a chick and I don't think I'm going to finish.  Then I start thinking about not finishing and that just makes things worse.  So what do I do?  I have left without finishing several times. I gave myself a hand job once (the girl offered but didn't do it as good as I could).  I bought thinner condoms that were to give me more feel.  

At some of the brothels in macau, you go in the room and the girl just gets on the bed, and spreads her legs.  Fuck that shit!  I need to visit a place where there is more fourplay and a more sexy attitude.  What can you do?  Before you enter the room, or quickly after entering, get an idea how the girl might be, and if it don't seem good from the start leave.
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Post at 21-1-2009 17:31  Profile P.M. 
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If the girl is that bad you could just close your eyes and imagine your wife or gf :-)

I just imagine a one afternoon stand that I had a few years back, the girl had the most amazing rack, and as soon as I remember her I explode.
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Post at 21-1-2009 21:52  Profile P.M. 
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what i do if the girl is really shit is i try and think that i am a porno star...
and i try porno moves...this makes it less like a gfe, and the girls attitude and service no longer effects me, i then focus on what i want and tell her to do as i want...  and i end up fucking for hardcore sex.. i get even harder as imgainging myself as a porno star turns me on...

hope it helps... but dont let it get to u... i think that all bros would have gone though what u r going though at some point in the mogering life...
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by princeandnpg at 21-1-2009 17:31

If the girl is that bad you could just close your eyes and imagine your wife or gf :-)

That would be ridiculous... a total waste of money!! Better to imagine your fav porn star, me thinks...




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Post at 23-1-2009 03:19  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #13 CunningLinguist's post

I agree 100%. I was just messing about the wife thing. But, to be fair, if the girl can't make you cum then you're already wasting money. Luckily I can generally control things. The only non-finisher for me was Pako this time last year, and that was guilt related.

Which porn star would you be imagining?

Maria Ozawa is my current favourite

[ Last edited by  princeandnpg at 23-1-2009 03:23 ]
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Post at 26-1-2009 18:08  Profile P.M. 
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i guess i wasn't alone on this aswell then.., i wonder how to ged rid of what's in your mind... does mongering more helps?
there is an occasion where the girl shows good vibes, but as when she started to ride me.. the way she talks puts me off...i tried to think about something else but the erection just gradually fades...should i just tell her to not make any sound?
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Post at 26-1-2009 19:31  Profile P.M. 
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Yup you can tell her shh! ,

Or just take something like Cialis or V a couple of hours before you go visit, as Jake says its often fake generic stuff but has the active ingredients in it and works anyway.




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