This might not be etched in stone, but i was wondering, is the general rule for a WG to 'CALL YOU' up to hang out (including sex) on her off time mean it's a freeroll? would you feel obligated to compensate her in anyway? or would you treat her like a buddy and just fuck???

.....sooner or later i think they would expect something in return (monetary?)

First of all if you haven't read the thread in forum affairs ... congratulations on becoming our newest KING !!!  

I don't like freebies in what ever form ... I believe we end up paying one way or another, sooner or later, so if
I don't give them money I always take them shopping.

GO 5-HTP....

You are now a King....

=D

YES....I believe you should compensate the girl....

i took freebies all the time when i was single, coz i didn't have a family to look after and i had time to hang out with them, take them to clubs, to parties, and even drive for them every now and then and basically make them feel they had a boyfriend. so i guess wasn't really freebie.
now, the few times i meet outside work i insist on giving them something. my way of saying it's great you want to do this but i'm not in search of a relationship.

Bro: Best to keep the lines clear unless you intend to treat her other than as a WG...

I personally think if you don't pay her at first you usually end up paying in other ways (like she constantly bugs you or asks you to buy her stuff). If you just do it once or twice it should be ok, but if you keep it going for a while she'll treat you like a bf and expect relationship stuff. The last thing you want is for her to stalk you and never leave you alone. paying takes the idea of a relationship off the table i think.

being weak as i am though, i'd probably bang her brains out and not pay, haha

if the 2 are just hanging out, and you have paid for the days expense, such as cinema and dinner etc! the girl normally doesnt expect to recieve payment!

having said that, the guy normally feels bad not to pay! as hes use to paying everytime after sex!

also depend how close you 2 are. hmmm

thanks for all the feedback guys, much appreciated!

its definately confirmed by eddielee & twice that i have been compensating these chicks. i take 'em to clubs, spend thousands on drinks and party candy

sometimes i take 'em shopping and buy them a whole new outfit or cellphone... i guess its not always cold hard cash... i just feel kinda guilty when i dont pay them in the morning, as i am so accustomed to it

cunn has the right idea though, need to keep the lines VERY CLEAR

mj: i've had quite a few wg's want more than just the money, and thats fuckin annoying.. they keep calling sometimes up to ten times/day!!! im not a relationship type guy... only want the sex

I think I was unclear in my earlier post but yeah...

I mean compensate not always in the form of money...

But I also got a question here.....What if one day you wake up after a hot night of sexy with your girl friend and you try to pay her??

I mean as you say your quite accustomed to this so it might be embarrassing if that happens!

stop stealing my one liners!

My story...

Met one at Venetain, on blackjack table. She is a WG actually, just one that thinking gamble can make more money.
The next day, we came across each other early at late afternoon. It ws about 2 hours before I had to catch my flight.
So, I fgured somethng simple was good and we played electric roulette. 500 became 800 and time to go, I let her kept that 800.

Back home, few days later, she called. let me skip somethng in between, anyway, she need money for the reason can be tre, can be fake.  Not much, so I wire her.

She said that on my next trip and since all following trips, she will be with me all free of charge. I told her time will tell.
On my regular trip to Macau, she did keep her promise, actually more than just keep her words. I still gave her some when Iwe were on our way to airport. .... my mind set was simple "always pay"

Did I stupid ? maybe. But...... after my return to home. about one week later, she told me that she intended to go home to visit her son, but had just lost all money at gambling table, she felt so sad her son accidently touched phone hence called her...(well, losing money at table make some sense... her son accidendly called ? by whom's cell phone ? a 2 years old kid suddenly do that ?)

I never replied any of her messages, even she had asked no money but so obvious. Did I fell bad. NO. I paid already, I did not take advantage of her previously, I feel no shame or owe her anything.

happy: i've heard from a few wg's that they enjoy sex, they are also looking for mr. right... so they start hooking and get paid while they are looking for that special someone... doesnt surprise me to to hear some outrageous story at the same time too... when the relationship gets kinda weird, best to cut it off. no hard feelings of course if u have compensated with something

Sometimes a WG will be offended if you compensated, others only care about money.  It's all questionable and I don't think there is one quick answer.  Case and point.

I hung out with a WG named May for the first time many years ago.  She knew I had a wife but was still happy to hang out with me.  We went to the beach, held hands, had dinner and even went to a Bed and Breakfast.  In the morning I left some money on her bedside drawer because I was "accustomed" to do so with a Shaghainese lady who I was also fucking outside of her work at the time.  She was offended and started yelling at me.  She said I was not respecting her as a friend, that she was not at work and would not expect me ever patronize her at her workplace.  Sometimes girls need love and friendship too, we were friends up until she got a real boyfriend and married him.  

The Shanghainese lady that I was bagging at the same time, also the first time I took her out to dinner we ended up singing K and then to her apartment.  I left the place without dropping a cent.  The very next time we hung out, before we fucked that night she said, "last time you didn't leave me anything in the morning"  I think she thought it disrespectful. GO FIGURE!  So we fucked all night and I dropped her $300 USD (correct compensation right?) in the morning before I left, what happened next was even weirder.  She gave me back $250 bucks and asked why I had given her so much, and that she was not "WORKING"...  she said it was customary to drop a few dollars as respect to her.  GO FIGURE! LOL...  She even told me to drop $20 next time.  

There are so many gray areas when it comes to the customs of taking out WGs and compensation.  Each and every situation or WG is different, there is no RIGHT or WRONG answer, it is 100% up to your own discretion.  

Just my 2 cents.

i've never gotten a full refund or discount like that, most chicks want more, all the power to you bro sexpert... i guess theres only grey areas when it comes to compensating them... i'm gonna start making my own guideline and maybe write a book one day, hahahha

but sometimes we guys dont really want to give any money! not because we are tight but we dont want to treat her as a chicken even though she is and disrespect her by giving her money after each fuck!

when she actuallly asks for it! il normally just give it and treat her as a hooker since she wants me to

i must admit, i dont treat wg's any diff from a reg. female friend, or a g/f... treat them all with respect and dignity... if they ask for money, no big deal... just hand it over with a smile to keep em happy

I'm glad you started this post its a good one.  Hearing all these stories really is interesting, I'm sure it will help me out in the future.  

Keep it going everyone! Thanks for sharing..

Sorry I couldn't help myself! Hahahahaa

so are we coming to the conclusion that we must always compensate wg's on their off time??? and we use our own discretion for the amount?

from all the reports that ive read in the past 1 yr, i see for overnight tippers ranging from 200rmb all the way to $300usd

anyone else have a system to share with us?