I'm curious to how you guys react when you see a WG that you've visited before on the street.

What happens if you're with a friend you're keeping this hobby a secret from?

How about if you were with your significant other?

You never know how the WG might react if she sees you!!

Its a balance of power in that its more shameful to be a WG to be a whore monger and thus the WG will more than likely even fail to acknowledge your existance, and anway a lot of them seem to dress and style themselves very differently to their 'work' attire so you won't recognise them anyway.


I realized that nobody gives a shit about anybody but themselves. For 100% of the rest of humanity you might as well be invisible, because 5 seconds after you've exited their immediate field of vision, you're going to be forgotten forever.

Assume that other people attach the same importance to you, that you attach to them - none.

Unless you're a regular I don't think they remember you. Don't forget they're seeing about half a dozen men a day so one face just blurs into another. She'll probably only remember you if someting memorable happened between you.
I've seen a couple of WGs that I visited but they didn't seem to recognise me even when I smiled at them. Just smiled back and walked on by.

I also thought with the amount of customers they get they wont remember who is who.
But some of them have a very good memory.

I only tried them once and then like half a year later when i already forgot i had tried them before, they tell me that they remember me and the friend i came up with.

And btw, some of those WGs have the worst dress sense when it comes to street clothes. I wouldnt be caught dead knowing them as people will instantly know the country they come from.
Maybe i should tell hint to them about their dress sense.

[ Last edited by  tstresident at 11-11-2008 23:03 ]

Something I dread happening and having the WG making too much of a fuss about it.  A smile or a nod would be fine though because you still can easily deny that they were looking at you (provided its not on an empty street with no one else there).  

I remember I had a conversation with SQ about this and she said the majority of her regulars just ignore her, but others at most will just smile or nod and thats the way it should be kept.

This is a real concern of mine although it should not be, as evidenced by the above comments. I am married and do not need this kind of meeting in the street.

My Standard Operating Procedure may be different from others here and expose me to greater risks, however. Rather than see a different person each time I have a series of regulars that I may see 1 or 2 times per month for months and months. I am sure (maybe I give myself too much credit) that I am not a blur for them. I once went to see a WG who I had not been to see for some 9 months (and I believe she gets a lot of traffic). She remembered me, even saying, “you are from Canada”, which is correct.

I am counting on the shame and the unwritten social hierarchy here to keep them discreet should they see me with my spouse. I suppose if I treated one badly and they were out for revenge and wanted to do something to damage me, if they saw me on the street with my wife this would be the chance.

The unexpected meeting on the street...something all us married guys dread.  I have had this happen a couple of times and both times, I could tell there was a glimmer of recognition on the girls' faces --- they may have realized I had once been a client, but they wouldn't have known anything about me.  I never use my real name (I always use an alias...and no, it is not Ranger) and I never say exactly where I'm from.  I'm from New York, but when they ask me, I always say Arizona.  Call me paranoid, but the backstory works for me.

Anyway, the first time it happened, I was by myself and made brief eye contact and that was that...no worries.  The second time it happened, I was at the vet with my wife (no, not for my wife... ) and my dog.  While I'm not 100% positive, I'm almost certain that the lady across from me is one I drilled anally a few months before.  I could tell she was looking at me, remembered me as a client, and was trying to figure out if I was good or not...   I wasn't too worried though, because what would she say, anyway?  Hey, Chuck from Arizona, didn't you drill my ass awhile back.  I mean, who'd believe it?

When I'm mongering around town at a hotel or what not, I always have a story to tell if I run into someone I know...a reason why I'm there.  One time, I was waiting outside a walk-up (it's on the 1/f, and I was waiting on the street outside) for the girl to finish another session.  All of a sudden, a mere 30 meters away, I see a colleague of mine walking towards me on the same side of the street!  In what was probably a fraction of a second, I determined that he hadn't noticed me, and I turned around and bolted in the building and up the stairs.  So paranoid was I -- thinking that maybe he was going to monger in the same building -- that I knocked on the first door with a "welcome" sign and entered the room.  She was an ugly bitch, too.     (you might wonder why I would be afraid of being caught by another mongerer...I'm married and he's not...and also, he knows my wife).

Useful advise. I have drawn a blank when it comes to what I could say I was doing in the area to someone I know if they were to see me on some of the dingy streets of Jordan, MKK, TST in the middle of the afternoon. I basically work in Central and have no business anywhere outside of CBD (and the adjacent areas Wanchai and Sheungwan).

Any ideas ?

I think you should buy a lottery ticket if you can managed to run into a WG randomly. So many people in HK and you can find that one, two, (well the odds are still pretty bad lol).

I suppose monger away from work if you can to lower those chances.

You are wrong man,...  anyone can bump into a WG, especially if you are a hardcore mongerer.  Once in HK I went to see this one girl about 3 times on a month long business trip near Prince Edward and on my day off I was shopping in TST, walking the pier I bumped into her and she recognized me.  We had lunch and we even ended up walking around the "stars" on the floor area and even took the MTR back to my hotel for a freebie afterwards.

Another time (in NYC), I was visiting some family during the holidays and went out to buy something for the dinner and bumped into one of my favorite AMP girls, we ended up chatting for 15 mins and everyone wondered where I had gone.  It was sort of weird because she lives and works in another borough and she happened to be having dinner with family as well, 8 houses down from my family.  I think she was more afraid than I was.

My 3rd time was the scariest because it was a Sunday and I went to my hair cutter with my wife and three boys for haircuts, like we always do.  I got my haircut first and then my three boys were up one by one as my wife sat next to me reading a magazine.  Then a chair turned and there she was!  My ATF!  I see her about 20 times a year and she knows me as Mr. Tam!  My heart dropped!  She had a small smile and nodded, I nodded back thinking no one realized until my 2nd son said "Dad?  You know that lady?"  I said that I was just being polite, he bought it and my wife did not even bat an eyelash, sigh... fuckin' dangerous!   Next time I called her up for a session, she said "don't worry, I would never do anything and everything my clients tell me I take with a grain of salt"  I gave her my regular routine "CHUCK TAM" as someone else put it on the board, from another state...  usually New Jersey or Connecticut.  After the session she told me that my wife and boys were gorgeous!  LOL...  we had a chuckle and I gave her a bigger tip.

It happens a lot dude!  I am waiting to dodge the next bullet and always on my toes whenever we get too close to a place that I frequent.

It's happened a few times to me.

The first time was with one of my old regulars. I almost didn't recognise her because she was six months pregnant! She stopped and chatted to me, and the only thing going through my mind was 'I didn't visit her in the last year, did I?'.

I think (read hope) that I hadn't had the pleasure for over a year :-)

Once I picked up a girl in Starbucks in TST, and quickly found out that she was a WG (she insisted that she was an OL, and just a part time WG. We went off to the nearest hotel and did the deed.

Months later i was out in Bossini with my (now ex) gf. We saw said WG with a huge western guy.

Said WG kept looking at me and smiling when noone was looking, and my gf got all protective... "that girl's totally checking you out!"

"really?"

Huge Western guy noticed too and took WG out of temptation's way

me and friends once saw a working girl with her bf in a restaurant! she prob didnt recognise anyone of us but we recognise her! i didnt want to expose her but i have immature friends! they kept giggling amongst themselves saying how that boy prob have no idea shes a whore and that we have fucked her etc!

thinking back, isnt a working girl allowed to have a bf too? isnt she allowed to fall in love too?

they were pathetic

Hey it happened to me.  Once a regular came up to me on the street.  She was very excited to see me – we chit chatted a bit.  Luckily I was alone when this happed, but I worry this could happen in more embarrassing g circumstances.

I have thought of this.  I am kind of a watch aficionado.  There are a lot of watch places in that area on Nathan road.  I would say I am there looking for a new wrist band for my watch.

Maybo from Fuji, who I think retired, used to do a great job of completely blanking me on the street, but then giving me a full report on my next visit...

Ie. When she saw me
Where she saw me
Who she saw me with
Etc etc


I must have seen her half a dozen times in Causeway Bay, but she deliberately ignored me... It's quite reassuring to know she won't embarrass you in front of your woman.

Good thinking.

Old film cameras and electronics are my thing, and there are plenty of sites around for cover.

Thanks, you may have helped me save my neck some day.

Maybo was a true professional in every sense of the word.

a chick i am regular with, saw her a couple of times outside in Jordan and TST when i was out with my wife.

exactly as bro kennichi said they simply forget about you.

the next week when i went to her she didnt mention until at the end of the session i tried testing her and told her that i saw her somwhere at so so time..

she acknowledge seeing me but said that this is just business and she doesnt want to ruin business by messing around with families / friends of other ppl

Never had the experience but I feel like they would do their best not to reveal themselves. I mean if they try to embarrass you, they out themselves as a prostitute, which is probably far more shame for them.