Subject: Have you ever fallen in love with a KTV Girl?
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Have you ever fallen in love with a KTV Girl?

Here is an interesting story for all of you.

So about two years ago, my Japanese wife went astrange and went off to do her own thing. Leaving me in the dump and sort of leaving me in a depressive state.

I ended up going to these Japanese KTVs with plenty of Filipina ladies and at first it was all just for fun, (nothing sexual happens in these Japanese Karaoke Bars) but I kind of grew fond of one of the girls. Her name is Hana. Hana is a pretty girl. Not the brightest but very pretty and great body. She found out that I wasn't doing so well and I wasn't really eating well and decided to come over to mine one weekend and cook me a home cooked meal. Something that I haven't had in a very long long time. I would go over to her club and she would simply pour me drinks, have some conversation and sing some songs together.

We have a great connection and we enjoy each other. Obviously there was some sexual stuff involved but this was more than that. Not once did she ask for money. Sometimes she does the groceries for the meals that she cooks using her own cash, I pay her back of course although most of the time she tells me not to pay her back.

So the point is, she's sweet, gf material, maybe I'm not too happy with her work, I believe there is no sex involved but I do know some of the other girls do offer additional services.

Have any of you had any similar experiences? I am pretty sure she isn't using me but at the same time, I am not sure if we've been made official. Are there risks or issues that could come from this?

Anyways, Looking forward to hearing from you all.

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twelve98   17-8-2018 16:55  Acceptance  +1   Just don’t get too attached. Live in the moment and just have fun
Pinkpuffy69   16-8-2018 09:17  Acceptance  +3   This is the one time I see no red flags. Go for it.
batman108   14-8-2018 04:31  Acceptance  +3   awesome and thanks
zbmthethird   13-8-2018 20:45  Acceptance  +2   its always a hard one, no pun intended...i've fallen for a few girls at KTV's, Saunas, Spa's etc where things seem to ...
Cruzaderhk   13-8-2018 20:05  Acceptance  +3   if you like her and she has a good heart, why not? go for it
austin821   13-8-2018 14:04  Acceptance  +5   Hey mate, nothing wrong with having her as your GF.
jeffzeke   13-8-2018 13:31  Acceptance  +10   She obviously is interested in you to go cook for you, so if you also have feelings for her, then it's good! You are n ...
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Talk to her about being your GF and see how you guys get on and how you handle her line of work.

I Wouldn't be rushing in to any talks about getting married, so enjoy yourself.
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QUOTE:
Are there risks or issues that could come from this?

I think you already know the answer to this.

Obe

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Just a word of warning, some girls play the long game, want nothing up front but expect a big payday down the track. Not saying she is playing this game but dont be totally blind to the possibility.

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jeffzeke   14-8-2018 13:26  Acceptance  +10   good insight bro, "long game" is a new term for me, but very appropriate.
obe   13-8-2018 19:38  Acceptance  +10   Yes some girls can play that game extremely well.
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I never approve nor disapprove when it comes to matters of the heart as you never know where/when someone special might come along. That being said, there are some things that you should be thinking about that I think I've remained consistent about on here over the years when these topics comes up.

1. What are your expectations with this relationship?
2. Everyone needs to make money. I wouldn't begrudge anyone for choosing any line of work. That being said, there's also WHY they are doing it. There's a difference between this being something she does to put food on her plate, or because it's the quickest/easiest way to make some fast cash.
3. You mentioned that you're not thrilled about her line of work. If she were to become your GF, would you be ok with it if she quit? Would you be ok with it if you brought her out and it turned out a colleague/boss/friend/neighbour had spent some time with her at some point?
4. How long has your acquaintance with her been? Why ask this question now?

It's nice to have someone there when times are tough. I get it. Bonus that she's easy on the eyes, cooks for you, and is fun in bed too. And if that's all you're looking for, then there's no reason to ask this line of question. Just enjoy it and don't complicate it by thinking about too much else. And if she starts pushing you towards something more and this is all you want, dude, it's your life and it's your future. Don't let nice get in the way of something potentially great.
If you're looking for something more long term and serious, that's ok too, but make sure you know what you're getting yourself into. And just because she ends up being your gf, it still doesn't mean you have to give up the farm for her. GF doesn't equal wife. Be together. Enjoy each other's company. Really find out about her, meet her friends, family, blah blah blah. Her becoming your gf doesn't mean you have to take over her life's finances, but you can also talk to her about being uncomfortable with her job and see if there are other options available to her.

Either way, no need to rush things. Take it at your own pace.

Bonne chance,

~UD

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zebrazebra   14-8-2018 19:23  Acceptance  +4   Great advice!
jeffzeke   14-8-2018 13:28  Acceptance  +20   Good insight UD, you must be a part-time counselor or shrink...
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Okay to have an open mind but at the same time don't be stupid and thread lightly.

Keep seeing her and doing your thing if that's what makes you happy but stay paranoid and never put yourself at any real disadvantage if it ever comes to that.

Only you can make the decision on how much her occupation bothers you and if you can really trust her. It's good to give others and yourself a chance to be happy and be optimistic. But be prepared for the worse at the same time and make sure your ass is covered financially, emotionally, etc.

Like obviously we don't want to assume the worse in people and the situation but it's easy to let the heart lead us to unfortunr events.

Be adventurous but calculated.

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jeffzeke   14-8-2018 13:28  Acceptance  +10   proceed with caution, good advice.
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I think this forum is for discussions on paid sexual services. You repeatedly stated that there is no sex involved in the "Japanese KTV" (In Japan?) and "not once did she ask for money". So, why is this thread even allowed here?
Also, RA30 for a photo of a civilian is way too low, in my opinion.

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obe   15-8-2018 19:38  Acceptance  +10   Civvie photo shouldn't be on the forum
aurufc   14-8-2018 15:17  Acceptance  +6   done
jeffzeke   14-8-2018 13:30  Acceptance  +20   very true, I believe forum policy is RA50 minimum.
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Reply #7 zebra's post

Posting a photo of a civvie is not allowed on this forum. No money changed hands for sexual favours so it shouldn't be here.

Also if you are serious about having her as a girlfriend why the fuck would you put her picture on a punting forum? I am confident she would not be happy with that.

Poor decision bro.

Obe

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Petay_1283   17-8-2018 08:22  Acceptance  +10   just catching up, totally correct.
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Reply #8 obe's post

Somebody get out of bed the wrong side or you spilt the denture glass again?


I get your point Obe though I think that the train of thought is that she works in a KTV so probably has dabbled a bit in the past and she may be on the "Long Game" play as mentioned by others so the bro is asking for advice............

Also, OP didn't report on the sex side with the girl, only mentioned it had happened so I think it's ok - others can shout me down if they like.....though I doubt I will care - as ever :-)

That said, yes photo was a poor choice MrEdward - maybe you wanted to make a testament to the validity of your "reach out" to the bros on this topic but think you should have masked her face at least.

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Pinkpuffy69   16-8-2018 09:25  Acceptance  +3   Agreed. Some people get really anal about it but I get it.
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Reply #9 aurufc's post

I refer the forum rules (http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/viewthread.php?tid=51286):

"The following actions are not allowed and may result in a loss of Karma, loss of posting privileges, and/or banning from the forum:
i) Discussions/reports that include underage girls (under 18), non-working girls (no exchange of money), drug use, violence, or the promotion of unsafe acts."

"The following rules apply to photos uploaded or linked to the forum.  Inappropriate photos will be edited / deleted, and the poster may have Karma docked, lose posting privileges, and/or be banned from the forum.
i) Real pics/vids must only be of adult working girls (WGs), i.e. girls aged 18 or older who are paid for sexual services."

Now the OP writes: "I ended up going to these Japanese KTVs with plenty of Filipina ladies and at first it was all just for fun, (nothing sexual happens in these Japanese Karaoke Bars)."And, "Not once did she ask for money. Sometimes she does the groceries for the meals that she cooks using her own cash, I pay her back of course although most of the time she tells me not to pay her back."

So, this girl is a non-working girl (no exchange of money) who sometimes fed the OP. You are right that she might be taking a break from her long career of prostitution, but there is no way we can know. It is not fair to assume anything. And although this section is a non-reporting part of the forum, the rules do indicate that they apply for the entire forum.

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aurufc   16-8-2018 13:33  Acceptance  +4   Don't forget about talking about Illegal Drugs Obe......lol
obe   15-8-2018 14:20  Acceptance  +10   And I rest my case your honour
Mister   15-8-2018 14:03  Acceptance  +5   Dem’s the rules, all right. One of the best things about this forum is it has always been careful to protect the girls
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I get your point Obe though I think that the train of thought is that she works in a KTV so probably has dabbled a bit in the past and she may be on the "Long Game" play as mentioned by others so the bro is asking for advice............   

Here is my issue. The above statement is only an assumption. Right or wrong it's only an assumption.

But the facts are the OP has not paid money for a sexual favour from this girl.

Mr Edward Collins - What is the point of her picture and name being posted in this thread? Could the discussion have happened without her picture? Yes it could have.

Obe

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cruman999   16-8-2018 19:53  Acceptance  +3   Agree with obe, no money =civvie= no pic no name. No problem with discussion as long as no ID of girl
aurufc   16-8-2018 13:21  Acceptance  +4   So the discussion is fine if the photo wasn't there? make your mind up lol
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Reply #11 obe's post

oooooohhhh handbags lol

So there was an ongoing thread recently by a fairly senior bro (cant be arsed to search at the minute) about him not fancying his wife anymore but she had started to want sex again and what should he do?

Lots of bros gave their thoughts, suggestions and advice about this..........

That is the same sort of thing as the wife is a non-working girl (no exchange of money) - is that me assuming again?

I'm sure there are other instances like this about and what about the freebies or SAs who just take gifts?  Rules is rules bros and they are always open to interpretation and application.

So if any discussion about any bird or situation involving a bird who you don't give physical cash to is in Mongering talk or The Lounge it should be removed - if that is the consensus, happy to take it up with the other mods.

We all know the photo was wrong so no need to harp on about that - the rating of it was changed as requested though no-one has asked for it to be removed.

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obe   16-8-2018 16:29  Acceptance  +10   I'm happy to drop the issue regarding her name and photo. I never had an issue with the topic.
zebra   16-8-2018 16:10  Acceptance  +5   Got your point
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QUOTE:
  aurufc  16-8-2018 13:21  Acceptance  +4  So the discussion is fine if the photo wasn't there? make your mind up lol  

Never said I had an issue with the thread topic.

This topic comes up often and it's good for a bro to get other bros opinions on the situation.

My only issue is the unnecessary posting of the girls name and photo but I am happy if the mods have no issue with it.

Obe

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aurufc   16-8-2018 19:09  Acceptance  +30   Didn't realise there was a 5th gear in reverse lol!! Teasing before you bite again grannie shagger......
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Reply #13 obe's post

Bro Mr Edward Collins,

If the girl makes you happy and you enjoy her company then why not pursue a relationship with her?

I wouldn't worry about her line of work too much. Any girl in any line of work may know many guys and have many ex partners.

If she cooks for you she genuinely likes you IMHO.
Have fun, be careful and keep an open mind about the relationship.

Obe

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aurufc   16-8-2018 17:44  Acceptance  +20   The King (of Grannies) has spoken. Love live the King (which will be longer than any of his punts!)
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cruman999  16-8-2018 19:53  Acceptance  +3  Agree with obe, no money =civvie= no pic no name. No problem with discussion as long as no ID of gir

Fuckin oath I say....

Obe
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Reply #15 obe's post

So we are all furiously agreeing lol

Errors in early posts are not uncommon I believe.

OP has apologised for his error both publicly and privately in PMs to Mods so lets move on from this.

Still no-one asking for the photo to be taken down?

Au

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obe   17-8-2018 10:52  Acceptance  +10   Agree early posts can have errors. No problems.
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Reply #1 mr.edwardcolins's post

Posting a photo of a civvie is not allowed on this forum. No money changed hands for sexual favours so it shouldn't be here.

I have removed the picture.

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obe   17-8-2018 14:52  Acceptance  +10   Thanks Petay




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