Recently I've been finding myself thinking of a particular WG, whom I have frequented quite allot recently.  I think that I may have fallen in love with her, which I know is strange.  As I have had quite a few girlfriends in the past, whom I have never felt this way about before.  With the exception of one girl, whom I met during my university studies.  But we split as she got a internship at a US Lawfirm along with a scholarship offer at a very well known US Law School.  I know that pursuing a relationship with a wg is a stupid idea.  I am just wondering if anybody has ever felt this way about a particular wg?  Seriously this is a open discussion topic.  Feel free to voice your opinions.  I am interested in how others feel here.

Some random thoughts...

- Many guys don't understand the difference between being in love and being infatuated.
- What's the difference between dating a WG and any other random girl?
- WGs see their work as strictly a job and that includes the performance of making you think that she likes you.
- Many guys who want to date a WG go in thinking that they'll be having free non-stop porn star sex.
- Just because you want to date the girl doesn't mean that she wants to date you.
- The toughest part is being able to recognize if the girl likes you for your money, you because acting is part of her job or honestly just you for you.

I have been infatuated with some actresses befor when I was much younger.  But this actual feel quite different.

I have felt strongly for a working girl.
A lady who can make you feel good sexually is awesome and she might have a good personality too.
When I think of going further however, I don't think I could ever
trust a WG as a wife.

Emotions can creep in slowing especially when two people are compatible sexually and enjoy their time together.  It's important to remember that most of the time, the WG considers this a "job" and to to a good job, they have to create the illusion of passion (IOP).  If they do a good job, they succeed in creating this "illusion".   By no means is it meant to be mistaken for as reality.

The biggest question to ask this WG you have feelings for is whether she has reciprocal feelings for you....

If YES, then you can probably start thinking about locking her down and crossing that line.  Remember, there are still numerous hurdles.  You might not like her much when she is your GF.  She might like banging other guys, for fun, or for $$.  Are you OK with that?

If NO, then this is going nowhere.  So you best get over it, sorry to say.  One quick fix is to keep on punting, and bang others like there is no tomorrow, or until you run out of funds, LOL.  Given some time away, your feelings will subside and eventually go away.  Or you will start over with having feelings for another girl, LOL!

@Soundwave, I think i spotted you heading this way with this girl after you saw her the 2nd time and actually pm'd you about it.

Be careful bro as you went that way a bit before when you were in Scotland http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... 2665&highlight=

Personally I don't THINK I would have a problem dating a WG as you know what she is about and know what she's doing when you are not there though as other bros have mentioned if you let your feeling develop further are you really sure you would be ok with her banging 10 blokes a day 6 days a week?

IMHO, its a dangerous road to go down and the big question is "where do you actually think the relationship is going"??

If you want something more that some sessions with her, then talk to her about a regular thing but you will be investing heavily both emotionally and financially in something that only has a very slim chance of not fucking you up.  If you want something between a WG and a GF ie more connection without the drama of a LTR with a GF then maybe an SB from SA on a monthly retainer is a way to go. From your volume of punting you can get one for the same monthly investment most likely

It's hard not to develop feelings for someone, we're human afterall.

I too right now have feeling for a WG whom I visit regularly, it just came naturally. Shes not a slutty type she doesn't even wear lingeries, quiet, reads books and good conversations. Not like I want freebies but I just started to think about her and cares about her well being.

One night I was tired and feeling the blues asked her if she wants to hang out and have a drink. "Sure" she said,"but I'm still charging you for the hour."

Either she's that materialistic or she knows what I'm up to.

The WG whom that I have fallen for is like that too.  I don't know if she reads or not.  But she isn't slutty either and I can talk to her like a regular person.

Love comes in all forms, shapes, and sizes. I won't say whether or not your feelings for this person is real or not. It's not up to me to decide that. However, there are things that you need to keep in consideration if you're truly going to head down this path.
1. WGs almost always have trust issues. Half of their clients are cheating on someone. So they almost always view relationships in a different light.
2. When you just start dating. Do you expect her to stop working? How do you feel about sharing her with other men?
3. Will you at some point expect her to stop? Are you willing/able to pay for her living expenses?
4. Many WGs are used to fast money. Easy come easy go, louboutin, apple, LVs. Is your chica one of those? Are you willing/able .... See points 2 and 3 again
5. How accepting are you of her and her profession? It's one thing that you SAY you know her in ethos way NOW... What happens if you bring her to your office party and boss/manager recognises her as someone they've spent time with before? Or a client? Or some collaborator? Or some family member?  Are you okay with rumours and gossip?

You don't have to answer me, I'm nobody in this situation. Means nothing to me how you feel about it one way or another. I'm merely pointing out patterns I've observed over the years for you to consider. I hope all of us are able to find love. Wherever it may be in whatever form it comes in. So, if this really is love, I wish you luck mate.

~UD

Things happen.. On a few occasions I though yes this girl is amazing hitting it off etc.. And repeats..

I have kept in contact with a few and revisited on occasion for freebies and they have become friends with benefits. And there has been one particular girl who I took on holiday spent some proper time and sort of become a girlfriend in short stints..

But still in the back of my head I think this is a working girl.. Don't get me wrong they may stop but once in the game I always think what stops them going back.

Just last night talking to working girl ( report to follow) she said a customer was chatting to her who had married a working girl a few years older than the guy. Now that they are married and I assume  on the rocks the girl is really possessive on him and wants to know his every move.. I guess if you first met when you are Punting there can be trust issues.

Anyway moral of the story love is stupid and people do things for feeling. Remember working girls are Still human and they have the same feeling so what's to say it's not possible for them to love like everyone else.  We are. All people.. I believe it's all about trust and respect.

I didn't expect this thread to get this much feedback.  I have been thinking if this just a crush that I may have developed.  Like all of our childhood crushes.  Guess it could be.  Maybe I will ask her the next time I see her if she is interested in becoming friends and we will see where that takes us.

Sounds like the "why not"s have been covered fairly extensively. And despite this, you're still moving forward. It sounds like this crush/infatuation/love runs pretty deep. Like p0ison said. Tread slow and carefully. If this is where y'all find your happily ever after, brilliant. So, I wish you the best of luck mate. If you do succeed, please do keep in mind what we've said and take care to reinforce trust. Like I said, almost every single WG I've ever spoken to have trust issues. So you'll have to double down on your efforts to strengthen that aspect. No relationship can be had without trust.

Of course.... Just to be a jacka**..... You should tell us whom this WG is. Let us test that pussy out. See if it's some quality tw*t. If we can build a consensus, you can have our blessing. Muwahahahaha......I'm just kidding of course. Lolz.

~UD

[ Last edited by  UncleDad at 20-12-2017 00:37 ]

I know an older guy in Thailand who fell for a Thai girl.  She wasn't even a working girl.  They married and he dumped 800k into a house in Thailand. (His nest egg) Long story short, she divorced him and she's now living in the house. He took her to court and will get 50% of the sale if he can ever sell it.
I've also know of some relationships that went good.
The moral of the story is watch your ass because nobody else will.

@p0ison.  Hey. I SAID I was being a jacka** didn't I? I even threw in an lol for good measure. Hahaha. Besides.... I'm half a world away, not like I'll be testing her out. Lol

~UD

I think if you do want to take it forward is to think about what you want to happen as an end result - would you be looking for this to become permanent ? What happens if a client, friend or relative recognises her? I wish you well but would advise to be careful and to think things through carefully first

I think if you do want to take it forward is to think about what you want to happen as an end result - would you be looking for this to become permanent ? What happens if a client, friend or relative recognises her? I wish you well but would advise to be careful and to think things through carefully first

Everybody here assumes you want a relationship with her, but as far as I can tell you're not sure yourself; the main question really is whether anyone ever had feelings for WG's before .. which is an obvious yes :-)

Like Sam said .. "It's hard not to develop feelings for someone, we're human afterall." ... and that also goes for WG's .. but like UncleDad described; it can be quite tricky.

I'm gonna assume it's about Jessica Rabbit .. (because that report & pictures are .. well .. incredible )

I've 'started' seeing WG's since .. July 2015? I'm conservative and not a huge player. I generally don't see girls again unless there's *some* form of Chemistry. But yea there was (and still is) one regular WG which, sometimes, I also have butterflies and feelings for.

Which is really f*cked up; because you *know* it's her job to make you feel special .. and you start to wonder if whatever she does and says, .. whether any part of it is genuine or whether she's just a bloody good actor. And naturally if you're smart (and strong) enough, you remember she's a WG and ignore the feelings (and doubt) and move on.

But .. then you keep visiting her .. and then she does something *special* to make you doubt again. (like what you described about jessica rabbit, which you *believe*, she doesn't do with other customers .. .. are you *sure* ? ... :-) )

In case of me and my WG, I frequently saw her until mid 2017, when I had to leave town. I told her, and to my utter surprise (you should have seen my face) she started crying softly against my shoulder. Which kind of made me feel very sad and very happy simultaneously, as at least it confirmed to me there were some feelings. (unless she's really a 100% psychopath). Not undying butterfly cloud 'i will do everything for you' love feelings, but at least it told me not everything we did was 'fake'. .. if that makes sense.

Like .. Sam said ... we're human .. also the WG's. So .. In case of Jessica Rabbit, best of luck but yes, keep a level head and be careful, .. but enjoy and good luck talking to her :-)

This discussion is getting very interesting.  Thank for all the advice guys.  It has all been really helpful.


WOW!  You actually had a WG who really cared for you!?!?!?  Guess there is a chance for me afterall....

This usually doesn't work out, but give it a try if you think you can turn a hoe into a house wife.  

I know some Thai's that can accept their wives having a job turning tricks.. but they are usually young and dumb.

Goodluck.

Soundwave don't get your hopes up. There are hundreds of cases the dude fall for a girl or the other way round and nothing good turned up. Marcade got lucky he's one in the hundred cases. Though I have feelings for this girl I doubt I'll ever make a move, statistically it won't end well.

Put it this way, if you end up rejected you probably won't even get close to that floor, and miss out other booties  =P