Hi guys, I'm a foreigner and new to the scene. So long story short, what should be a happy session ended acrimoniously. Maybe I was in the wrong, but I was really unhappy with the experience. Maybe fellow forummers here can advice me a little and I would be very grateful.

I knocked a girl's door in Fuji Building. Liked what I saw and asked her how much? She said $500 so I went in. When I was in the room. She tried to upsell me a message for $1200. I rejected it and tell her that I'll stick to $500 as per what we agreed. She did mentioned something (this is where she claimed a dispute) like giving me a discount and I firmly said no. She then asked me what I want, I said I'd just want to play with her body. So I grabbed her titties before she suggested giving me a head (without condom). She blew me on and off while I played with her titties and pussy. Long story short, I came and handed her $600 (with a $100 tip as I really enjoyed the session).

Then she started shouting at me and said it's supposed to be $1000 since she gave me a BBBJ. I said no, I did not agree to it. She threaten to call the police and I said go ahead because I stand by what I said. She did call 999 and told that I refused to pay her. She hung up pretty quickly I'm not sure if she really lodge a report. She said this is the rule and since she gave me a BBBJ and I must pay her $1000. Although I was firm but I wouldn't want to get into any trouble since I'm here on business. I gave in, gave her another $500 and left (took back the $100, which was supposed to be a tip).

So, am I in the wrong here? I know I should negotiate before entering the room but I make a mistake. I really didn't like the way she intimidated me. She's a PRC and if it helps, we were conversing in mandarin so there shouldn't be any unintentional misunderstanding.

Thanks in advance.

[ Last edited by  runforyourlife at 13-11-2017 00:22 ]

youre new at this , it shows here and I'm sure it shows when you're with the WG
unfortunately for you, because of this she tried to cheat you for more money - which happens to everyone from time to time even though what she was asking for was excessive
chalk it up for experience, that's all you can do

oh, the only thing you can do is to name and shame her on this forum … which you haven't done yet

[ Last edited by  twiceAweek at 13-11-2017 06:52 ]

Sorry to hear that bro, it happens to everyone sooner or later.. Happened to me years ago, thankfully she backed down before I did. It is an uncomfortable situation for newbies as well as veterans!

Sorry to hear that and thankfully such experiences are rare. Frankly in that situation I would have done the same to avoid a mess. Agree with twice, name and shame is pretty much the only retaliation option.

You should name the person.  

Me personally, when a girl starts itemizing services and prices, I get turned off and walk.  Prostitution's a business but good hookers either enjoy sex with you or convincingly act so.  When it's blatantly obvious that the girl's in it for the money and when I get an upsell, it's a RED FLAG for me and I walk: "Umm...sorry.   I left my wallet downstairs in the Bentley.  Give me a second."

Making everyone know  is the only thing you can do, that 1k is down the hole already (no pun intended)

I actually OK with some girl's menu system, that way things are clear you get what you pay for. I have some girls do that to me they were so good at it you won't get extra services even you're
a regular but we are in good terms. I can tell she enjoys the act as well, as she gets more comfortable and chatty.

Thanks the replies. I'll take this as a lesson learnt. I think I agree with 1hourOfLove. I don't get why the girls upsell their services. This creates unnecessary confusion. Am I going to be charged on how many times I squeeze their tittles too?

Thanks again. I can't remember her name but she's located at Fuji Building, Causeway Bay, 16F, Unit B2. Markets herself as a Taiwanese but she really is a PRC with voluptuous figure.

Mr RunForYourLife,

She's a communist masquerading as a Taiwanese?  The nerve of that lady.  I'll get her for you.  I studied Mandarin in Taiwan so she ain't gonna be able to pull the wool over me eyes.  I'll cum all over her face and demand a full refund.  Then we'll go out for some beers.

Similar kind of thing happened to me in my early days of punting in HK

I once visited a little hottie walk-up girl in CWB. Price that was quoted was HK$500 and I accepted. Our physical session ended a little after 30 minutes in and then we were lying on the bed and talking before taking a shower and then talking a little more. As I was leaving I took out my money to pay including a $100 tip, her personality totally changed and she said it was HK$1,000 because I had spent an hour   First time that this had happened to me and really soured what was a top session. I challenged her a little and told her than she never mentioned there was a time limit but I ended up conceding and, upon reflection, it was probably not unreasonable although she should have been clearer on the pricing given I had only had one pop and had I known the time limit I would have been out of there straight after . I even called her bluff and said I usually get 2 pops for HK$1,000 with walk-up girls and she reluctantly offered another round but I decided against it and just paid her as if I spent another 30 mins there she may have upped the price to HK$1,500 which was definitely not worth it.

In any case, the lesson I learnt was to be clear on pricing and now I try and avoid small talk with first-timers