I do think 10 years ago it was more easy for a non ethnic Chinese , to find a chinese gf.
Mentality regarding foreigners has somehow changed i believe.
Foreign born chinese, including taiwanese and HK, they were before grand prize for girls, not as much now.
I agree with Jasontrump that parents want their daughter ideally to be a rich chinese from the same province/city, with apartment. And many chinese girl don't marry for love.
That being said, that didn't stop me from having many chinese gfs, ONS, even a booty call.
And UncleDad is right, I know a lot of foreigners married with chinese, or also have chinese gfs.
There here are still groups that are more likely to go for foreigners BF, serious or not :
- Some Students and fresh graduates, newly working, some young girls away from home, the short time frame where they want to play and have fun, going to clubs, KTV's, experience sex before getting serious.
-girls from late 20's and up, who are not married, called shengnv (leftovers) in China.
-Girls looking for language exchange partners
And let's not forget girls that cheat BF or husband, and those looking for yiyeqing (ONS)
So there's still plenty of fish in the sea for those who want something else than wgs.
I was always honest from the beginning,
I agree, It's better. even if i wasn't always.
After some time, girls may start to think it can become more serious.
I use to say to gfs that i am against marriage, or that i will not marry before living several years with a girl.
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